Struggles & Identity

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Bad morning!

I went to hang out with one of my friends who is visiting from South Korea and he went to the restroom and I waited outside the bathroom, this was at the mall, but while he was in there, some girl I went to school with started taunting me and calling me names! It hurt my feelings so bad! But it made me so mad that I fought her there in the mall. She technically started it but I started the physical fight. My friend came out and picked me up off of her and threw me over his shoulder and apologized to the girl and then he carried me out to the car. He gave me a lecture about how I shouldn’t be fighting. He pretty much scolded me when I didn’t even do anything wrong but defend myself!

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WillaKissing · 56-60

Yeah, but you are old enough via your own admissions that starting the physical assault makes you the one that gets arrested if the police are called, and sued for any harm or damages to your enemy. Not Good.

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@WillaKissing 😳

WillaKissing · 56-60

@LizMcds90 Just trying to give you something to think about instead of your fists next time.

If she files a police report this time you could still get charged with assault and sued. Just not good.

Defending yourself is if you are physically assaulted first, not verbally abused.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

If she's the same age that's embarrassing, you didn't have to do anything, shes still 16 apparently

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@Ryannnnnn she was just immature

Anielka · F

Probably cause you were acting like a 12 year old.

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@Anielka that’s exactly what he said too! But it was so embarrassing !

ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP

She verbally assaulted you. Your reaction was to resort to physical violence. You escalated the situation.
Did your bf just scold you, or did he do that and more?

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@ProfessorPlum77 he is a friend, not boyfriend. And no he just scolded me

ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP

@LizMcds90 I am sorry. I misunderstood.

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@ProfessorPlum77 it’s fine

Adrift · 61-69, F

Better way to handle it.
Um, could someone please call security this insane woman whom I dont recognize is harassing me...
She is obviously on something and needs help.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

But u wasn't defending yourself. U started a fight because someone called u a name.

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@smileylovesgaming yea and? I was most definitely defending myself!! Why take her side?

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@LizMcds90 by law u assaulted her so you would go to jail if the police was called

Strict4u · 56-60, M

You should have just ignored her instead of starting a fight your friend was right to lecture you

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

So, this was back in high school, I guess? Junior high?

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SW-User

@LizMcds90 I don't think you do

LizMcds90 · 31-35, F

@SW-User kid, believe what you want. I don’t care. I wish I didn’t get beat up but whatever. I beat her ass too anyway

SW-User

@LizMcds90 you didn't get beaten up.

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