I don't think that enough attention is paid to the fact that people (men, in my case) will make you feel like you are their entire world, then drop

Even if a woman is pursuing me, I’m going to ask her if she’s “ok” before the first time we have sex.

“Yes” isn’t important. It’s “No” that matters. I’ve actually heard “no” once moments (literally) before sex. It really threw me because she was pursuing me. Well, it turns out she still had a boyfriend and was having difficulty having sex with me before breaking up with him.

If you don’t ask, you don’t know the angst someone might have despite what you perceive at the moment.

Since women may often have differing opinions on consent and sexual comfort levels, you have to communicate and be SURE. Revoking consent before or during is fine. Revising consent after is not.

All of us get hurt with breakups. Sometimes it’s difficult to read the room. Hopefully there was a clue that you just didn’t pay attention to. Getting 100% blindsided would suck for sure.

Ug that's the worst and you never know how they feel either. They could like you one minute and not the next. People can be great liars. I'm sorry

I understand. I've fully reached the conclusion that men just aren't able to feel actual love for anyone besides maybe their children. (And many can't even love their children)

It's just not in their makeup. They're wired for war and work, nothing else.

Sorry you had such a hard blow I never understand some people.

Yeah... I'm done this time, too. Something in me just upped and died that day and I'm never going to be the same owl that I once was.

This has got to be my biggest pet peeve, to say it nicely. It's emotional immaturity and cowardice, imo.

[@DearAmbellina2113 @foldedunfolding ❤ I wish I could wrap both of you up in cottonwool wisk you both away from the turmoil and shower both of you with love 💓💓💓

Do you literally feel like your heart is broken?
And yes, it’s disgusting, but from the male point of view there’s no other way to have sex. They don’t realise the pain that they are causing.
I mean, I’m not like that ever since my first girlfriend at 16 I learn to respect feelings and invest my love into the woman.