I don't think that enough attention is paid to the fact that people (men, in my case) will make you feel like you are their entire world, then drop

you like a bad habit made of GLASS. To say that I have a broken heart is to do a grand injustice to hearts, because I'm not sure there is even one left to break, or experience trust anymore. I know it goes both ways gender-wise, but from my lens..we women are trudging the earth with limitless wounds, and we are expected to bow our heads and carry on..as if it has not EVEN OCCURRED..as if we are not bleeding from all our new orifices, as it pools at our feet, making it even more slippery a surface to traverse in the future. And I will say it until I am blue in the face, although this is not my current situation: to make a woman believe you are in love MERELY TO SLEEP WITH HER, is a true LACK of consent. And though you may have been GENTLE, and you may not be PROSECUTABLE..you know what they call people who do not get CONSENT.