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Rob04 · 18-21, M
India is Male dominated maybe that is y? But old backward thinking I'd say: women not allowed out after dark, no drinking beer at home and defo not at a pub. But thas Village side I heard City is opposite, women drink, cheat etc.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Rob04 I faced this not just by Indian men, even by western men (online). Only difference is western men seem more ok with the freedom i have.... than Indian men... still they too tried to dominate me and put me down.

Unless in super rich areas, it's really bad for women here. I don't have basic freedoms due to many bad men around who get away with harassing women without consequences and also society and culture.

Yes, i am not allowed to smoke, drink or have sexual desires or any sexuality at all. ( I think it's good to not drink, smoke, do drugs, etc).. But I think women's sexuality should be respected as long as is not addicted to it or cheating.

I think the problem is many Indian men are insecure and jealous of women's potential.

Problems personally i face are here are lot due to sexism, misogyny, toxic mascilinity, lack of safety, lack of trust in men, lack of some basic freedoms ( such as dating short-term, divorcing without being blamed by society for divorce just bcuz i am women, expressing my sexuality, dressing what i want without being judged or shamed (men harass both full dressed and short dressed girls/women, no idea why still society judges clothes), etc

Idk about cheating... heard of some girls leaving their bf becuase found someone more good looking or rich. Sexual cheating seem less by women.... maybe they hide it... I heard romantically and sexually suppressed women cheat more than modern liberal independent women. Men who suppress women don't seem to show any interest, respect , love or interest towards needs or desires of their wife. Women get killed in some such cases.

My both parents are educated... so i get small freedoms such as i can do love marriage if i want. I can be unmarried if i have a job.

thisguy20 · 41-45, M
Suppose that means you're meeting the wrong "men"...likely a function of looking for them in the wrong places / finding them in the wrong ways...
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
You need to change the type of man you let in your life then, It seems your previous choices were terrible ones. Look outside of the box and channels that you have been using to find different type of man.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@666Maggotz I think bad men look for victims more and they are more in center of attention that's why it's easy to come across them more. 1 bad man can cat call 50 women per year, can grope 20women, rape 3. Imagine if the bad ones are 20% if only one can do so much destruction) . The problem is our society takes side of powerful one ( be it man or woman), bad men tend to get away a lot due to their status, men generally are independent and in power than women. There are bad women too who used men for money or cheating bcuz found someone better.. .

Where i live 40% men easily engage in cat calling from my personal observation. SOme do it to every girl and some do it to girls who have slut rumors on them ( which is very misogynistic, could be due to cultual issues too). Other men seem silent to not get into fights or they blame the girl because they are cowards or ignorant due to cultural beliefs.

I think genuinely good ones are only 10-20%. Most men are misogynistic ( some more and some less), some seem misogynistic unintentionally ( could be due to culture), many have entitlement just because they are men and see women are objects or servents or below them. COuld be different in other countries.
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WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@sahi81 I disagree with you. It matters not to me anymore either. I stated my opinions and life actions that I have taken to avoid the terrible type women I have dated and once married/divorced they all were only after money, and all of them cheated on me and left me for seven figure incomed men.

So, I respectfully decline any further comments on your post.
Because that's what they are and the only way to keep you is to drag you down with them.

You'll start noticing patterns and you'll be able to identify them quickly and walk away.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarbleMarvel I can't drag men down, because let alone i want to even be around them.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@CountScrofula maybe in other country.... i am trying for Italy.. heard it's better than india for women.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@sahi81 I hope you can move. It sounds awful for you.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@CountScrofula Thats why I have been single for 18 years now. I do not have time for a pain in my ass.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
It’s because you’re not setting boundaries early in the relationship.
666Maggotz · F
@sahi81 tbh ignore the male comments on here. They’ll never understand how it is for you or women as a whole. They’re delusional to the reality of how their gender as a whole behaves.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@sahi81 Oh I thought you meant men that you date. Men in general on the street? Yes, we are all predators! You have to protect yourself at all costs.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Quetzalcoatlus not just on street... no where a girl/woman is safe until proper action is taken on bad men.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
I don't know why. You deserve to be treated better than that.
A lot of men describe their experiences w women similarly .. seems a lot of people aren't a very good fit for others
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@BrandNewMan maybe bad ppl stand out more or look for victims more.
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
You are running with the turkeys, you should be soaring with the eagles. Good men will lift you up and help you glow!
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@3Dogmatic why don't such men come in my life..... Some men pretended to help me just to betray my trust later...and pull me down. It's hard to trust good men too due to such men.
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
@sahi81 Sadly we are few in numbers, but when you will find one when you least expect it. The universe will send you one. Be ready
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
You know the answer. Don’t honor them by fixating on their behavior. Dust off and move forward.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
try different men I guess
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@sahi81 doesn't everyone?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Sandcastler no, i don't
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Matt85 · 36-40, M
i like that youre not a doormat
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WowwGirl · 36-40, F
Because you pick bad men
Sevendays · M
Are you an alt for Paleandpoluted?
666Maggotz · F
Because most of them actually hate women.

 
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