Why do men always try to pull me down in life, treat me bad, treat me like an object and also make me feel like a loser.
Most men i came across acted this way and also were very self-entitled.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Rob04 I faced this not just by Indian men, even by western men (online). Only difference is western men seem more ok with the freedom i have.... than Indian men... still they too tried to dominate me and put me down.
Unless in super rich areas, it's really bad for women here. I don't have basic freedoms due to many bad men around who get away with harassing women without consequences and also society and culture.
Yes, i am not allowed to smoke, drink or have sexual desires or any sexuality at all. ( I think it's good to not drink, smoke, do drugs, etc).. But I think women's sexuality should be respected as long as is not addicted to it or cheating.
I think the problem is many Indian men are insecure and jealous of women's potential.
Problems personally i face are here are lot due to sexism, misogyny, toxic mascilinity, lack of safety, lack of trust in men, lack of some basic freedoms ( such as dating short-term, divorcing without being blamed by society for divorce just bcuz i am women, expressing my sexuality, dressing what i want without being judged or shamed (men harass both full dressed and short dressed girls/women, no idea why still society judges clothes), etc
Idk about cheating... heard of some girls leaving their bf becuase found someone more good looking or rich. Sexual cheating seem less by women.... maybe they hide it... I heard romantically and sexually suppressed women cheat more than modern liberal independent women. Men who suppress women don't seem to show any interest, respect , love or interest towards needs or desires of their wife. Women get killed in some such cases.
My both parents are educated... so i get small freedoms such as i can do love marriage if i want. I can be unmarried if i have a job.
Unless in super rich areas, it's really bad for women here. I don't have basic freedoms due to many bad men around who get away with harassing women without consequences and also society and culture.
Yes, i am not allowed to smoke, drink or have sexual desires or any sexuality at all. ( I think it's good to not drink, smoke, do drugs, etc).. But I think women's sexuality should be respected as long as is not addicted to it or cheating.
I think the problem is many Indian men are insecure and jealous of women's potential.
Problems personally i face are here are lot due to sexism, misogyny, toxic mascilinity, lack of safety, lack of trust in men, lack of some basic freedoms ( such as dating short-term, divorcing without being blamed by society for divorce just bcuz i am women, expressing my sexuality, dressing what i want without being judged or shamed (men harass both full dressed and short dressed girls/women, no idea why still society judges clothes), etc
Idk about cheating... heard of some girls leaving their bf becuase found someone more good looking or rich. Sexual cheating seem less by women.... maybe they hide it... I heard romantically and sexually suppressed women cheat more than modern liberal independent women. Men who suppress women don't seem to show any interest, respect , love or interest towards needs or desires of their wife. Women get killed in some such cases.
My both parents are educated... so i get small freedoms such as i can do love marriage if i want. I can be unmarried if i have a job.