Why do men always try to pull me down in life, treat me bad, treat me like an object and also make me feel like a loser.

@WillaKissing dried prunes

@666Maggotz I think bad men look for victims more and they are more in center of attention that's why it's easy to come across them more. 1 bad man can cat call 50 women per year, can grope 20women, rape 3. Imagine if the bad ones are 20% if only one can do so much destruction) . The problem is our society takes side of powerful one ( be it man or woman), bad men tend to get away a lot due to their status, men generally are independent and in power than women. There are bad women too who used men for money or cheating bcuz found someone better.. .

Where i live 40% men easily engage in cat calling from my personal observation. SOme do it to every girl and some do it to girls who have slut rumors on them ( which is very misogynistic, could be due to cultual issues too). Other men seem silent to not get into fights or they blame the girl because they are cowards or ignorant due to cultural beliefs.

I think genuinely good ones are only 10-20%. Most men are misogynistic ( some more and some less), some seem misogynistic unintentionally ( could be due to culture), many have entitlement just because they are men and see women are objects or servents or below them. COuld be different in other countries.

@sahi81 tbh ignore the male comments on here. They’ll never understand how it is for you or women as a whole. They’re delusional to the reality of how their gender as a whole behaves.

@sahi81 Oh I thought you meant men that you date. Men in general on the street? Yes, we are all predators! You have to protect yourself at all costs.

@Quetzalcoatlus not just on street... no where a girl/woman is safe until proper action is taken on bad men.

@MarbleMarvel I can't drag men down, because let alone i want to even be around them.

@3Dogmatic why don't such men come in my life..... Some men pretended to help me just to betray my trust later...and pull me down. It's hard to trust good men too due to such men.

@sahi81 Sadly we are few in numbers, but when you will find one when you least expect it. The universe will send you one. Be ready

@BrandNewMan maybe bad ppl stand out more or look for victims more.

@sahi81 doesn't everyone?

@Sandcastler no, i don't

@sahi81 I hope you can find some safety and happiness!

@CountScrofula maybe in other country.... i am trying for Italy.. heard it's better than india for women.

@sahi81 I hope you can move. It sounds awful for you.