Why do men always try to pull me down in life, treat me bad, treat me like an object and also make me feel like a loser.

@WillaKissing not just men i meet... men in general... around me

@sahi81 That knife cuts both ways then dear, for I have nothing but bad experiences with the women I dated and know in general.

@WillaKissing But men seem to have more issues with needing dominance over women... by pulling women down.

@sahi81 Only the controlling and useless men. I will not get into a men do this, and women do that tit for tat post.

I always treated the woman I dated/ married/ divorced from with respect and like my princess.

I raised my daughter not to need a man, and to put herself and education and career goals first. Then let the right man come into her life that Compliments her and her achievements. I can only give you the same advice.

@WillaKissing “men are never the problem- only you are”

@666Maggotz I do not know what to say about that, because we all have choices on whom we decided to involve ourselves with. If you choose badly like I have in the past, then you get a bad person in your life. The "Oh, they are good looking to sexy and hot and seem cool to me when you meet them", only goes so far into what the person is like in their true core.

Treat each person you meet like a job interview vetting them for the right job, if they do not meet your standards don't hire them and move onto the next candidate. That is how I approach dating now.

@666Maggotz you mean he showed his true self after getting her dependent on him?

@sahi81 yes, but we are somehow supposed to be mind readers and know who they truly are before they show it.

@666Maggotz I partially agree that humans are inherently evil with bad souls, but there are good human's male and female, and like I said vet them to make sure they fit "You and Your relationship criteria before getting involved with them or sleeping with them"!

Take control of yourself and your life choices!

@WillaKissing you do realize abusers lie right? Men lie to get sex. You’re acting as if their natural state is honesty.

I doubt if I ask a man if he cat called any teenage girls he will say yes. But every woman I know has been cat called as a teen 💀 hmmm make you think 🤔

@666Maggotz You have your bicycle I see, and you ride it as you wish, the advice I have tried to give has fallen on deaf ears.

Good luck.

@WillaKissing your advice is coming from a man who has never existed as a woman. So it’s useless.

@666Maggotz I will give you this. I thank God I am 100% heterosexual though I cross dress. But let me tell you in my 59 years on earth I have yet to meet a woman worth my relationship time or even time to get to know.

So, I consider myself even in distrust of the opposite sex and her intentions, and I follow my own path unless I find that one in 8 billion woman. Not the first good looking guy I run across and place all my eggs in his basketlike it seems young women do these days. And I can tell you my daughter waited until she found her 1 in 8 billion.

So good luck.

@WillaKissing I see my point has gone over your head. Maybe instead of waiting for the 1 in 8 billion, maybe men should just become better people. Ever thought of that?

I’ve never been hurt in a relationship by a man. The men who hurt me were my family, so I had no choice in the matter because I was a baby born into the situation.

But I have observed the behaviors of men. Your gender is hopeless. I normally don’t even see a point in talking to you people because you never seem to actually comprehend my message.

So for all the ladies: look in the 4B movement ✨ No men, no dating, no marriage, no sex with anyone that is a male.

@666Maggotz Sorry about your family life. No one has control over their parents or even what ethnicity they are born.

But like I said you do you, and you staying celibate relieves my mind because I know you won't ruin a good man that way.

And like I said, and I do mean it,

Good luck!

@WillaKissing a man’s opinion on women’s issues doesn’t matter anyway. This is a woman’s issue, so my opinion matters more than yours.

@WillaKissing bro I’m a lesbian, I’m not celibate. There are no good men to ruin 💅

@666Maggotz Whatever you think. I am done with it. I never got any juice out of a dried prune before anyways.

@666Maggotz I knew you were a lesbian. I have no issues with that and support you and it 100%.

But I will not support your "Man Hate" at all.

@WillaKissing then why did you say that me staying celibate won’t ruin a good man? I would never have sex with a man under any circumstances, I don’t care if he’s Jesus Christ.

And I don’t support the existence of men at all, so we are on the same page. ✌

@666Maggotz Absolutely not on the same page.

But you do and think as you wish. Again, squeezing a dried prune trying to make juice is frutiless.