Are you judgmental before you get the full picture?

I can't afford judgement about others .
I end up getting very unwell mentally if I do .
I also don't judge really cause I was at the thick of it so I know how it feels .
It started for me at 17 .
I'm 44 now .
Things don't bother me as much .
I stay out of the debating area and I have a lot of peace .
Being around a person that judgemental over different problems they have , the main core of that is that there hurting themselves in the inside as well .
When your around people watching the energies it brings you , if it brings negative energies then go off by yourself and refuel your own energy cause it can be draining

I can be but this is not really my kind of behavior.

I am more judgmental on a place like SW because you don't know people in real life and only what they will tell you. The way things are phrased can make me be biased with my replies.

I am way less judgmental in real life because I can assess the people over a longer period of time.

World is full of Judgemental people, basically due to the education system. Everyone thinks they know something about everything. Most of them have lost the capacity to hear and listen to what other is trying to say, and just jump to a conclusion predicting what is being addressed. Its very hard to find two people coming to an agreement.

The problem is also due to telephony which is not a good medium for communication. Love the days when telephone calls were pretty expensive, and people resorted to letter writing, in which they cannot show their anger or aggression. But on phone, it is all ego trip .. each trying to dominate the other.

I will reach quicker conclusions over those who I don't care much about, which is most people. It's low risk because the potential loss is meaningless to me. I don't need the full picture in most cases. It's different when it comes to work colleagues or to people who have already established themselves in my esteem. They'll get more benefit of the doubt, but not too much. I'm pretty clinical, largely because I've been made this way. It is what it is.

I am very mindful of the fact I don't understand what others are going through.

People from school always say that I’m very judgemental. I do try not to be.

I try not to judge until I check things out. There is so much disinformation on the Internet that I question everything I see unless I can find good data.

to be honest .. sometimes.. and then later i might have to say sorry . will i never learn.. check my profile to know me.. i try to be honest and fair.. i am a man and i can change if i have to .. i guess.. grin

I like to get the full picture, and even then, I am in no position to judge anyone.

Honestly I am not here to judge anyone and expect the same but that's not how the world works these days sadly

People here can be mean but there are also the nice ones.

I would like to think I'm not, honestly there are times that I am

You are correct in your view!

I try to fight against it but sometimes the urge and the first impressions are too strong!

the replies are you being welcome here. some will be good and some bad.. have fun in the crazy zone.. grin

I prefer to get a full picture, but sometimes first impressions can be right.

I get the full picture first then bring the facts

I like to listen first, gather information and then form my opinions

Absolutely! Then you have to go -"sorry; sorry! "

I am not but people tend to judge me and I hate it.

I know the type 😅 annoying

most often i wait for the full picture or at least fuller!

nooooo

Yes