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Any idea about why we don't find people around when we really need them ?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
The trick is, dont rely on other people. Then that problem doesnt come up.
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@GuyWithOpinions good idea. But at times we just need someone there to just listen.
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@GuyWithOpinions I don't know what others feel about it. But I at times feel like people are occupied with their own problems. So how will they be around solving mine.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@kalpanapatel149 its true, everyone has their own issues. Everyone is an individual with thier own needs and everyone handles thier problems differently. Its ok to work together and ask for help but if everyone became more self sufficient life would be alot easier.
Because we never really had them to begin with.
They not your ppl
SeaGlass · F
Because this place is a lot like life... not just like, but some things are the same
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
But I prefer a faucet most of the times
SeaGlass · F
@nobodyishome Tell it to Allah
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@SeaGlass sure, I will. I do. Most of the times. I do. And its hard.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
During those times you will find out who is like a rock.
Most are, as they say, fair weather friends. Only true friends wait behind and be with you when time comes.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Somebody told me recently that when an issue arises, men want solutions but women want sympathy. If this holds true in your case you have come to the right place loads of people like to give sympathy here. Not me though I'm more of a, "what did you do this time you w*nker, let's see if we can fix this" person. And then if everything holds true to history we start the job, a friend of yours turns up you disappear, I finish the job, then you reappear and complain about how it was done.
That sort of timing is out of our control. But, if you have a lot of true friends, your chances for support increase tremendously.
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
People know when you are in trouble, they blame you for it, so when they see it coming, they vanish.
Convivial · 26-30, F
They're like London buses... You wait and wait then three turn up
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@Convivial same in india as well
Some people spend a lifetime shunning others....being antisocial......actually pushing away anyone who ever wants to be close to them. Then when they need someone they act shocked.......can't grasp
why no one is here when YOU need them to be.

Is that you?
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@MaBalzEsHari such people exists too.
@kalpanapatel149 Oh I know they do. A lot of them can be found on here. Like the ones on here that post....."Anyone want to chat I am so lonely". Then you say hi to them and not a peep back.
I dont really need anyone.
Idk, it's sad.
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@MsSwan indeed it is.
in10RjFox · M
Because we ignore them when they are available thinking we don't need them. If we had treated them like money and made them ours even when we didn't need, we would have had them in all our pockets.
Reject · 26-30, M
People don’t want anything to do with you when they’re needed. They only care once they aren’t. At least that’s been my experience.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
Because they forget where they came from, and think they are better than Allah but they are not.
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
Busy finding someone they need… perhaps
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@scorpio611 could be possible.
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
SnailTeeth · 36-40
What makes you think you really need them?
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@SnailTeeth I don't know.
wintersecret · 41-45, M
May be we nust dont see that way.

Or

Could be what we want is not arnd
I dont rely on anyone. That way i am never disappointed
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
Because there are persian cats everywhere.
It’s very rare I use the word busy’ but some folk have no problem saying that to me lol … even now I am actually busy I still can’t brush someone off saying to them “I’m busy”

I’m never too busy if someone needs me or my help

But if I need someone “they are busy”

😂💀🥱
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Because those people are needed by others at the same time?
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kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@DunningKruger no. They are good.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@kalpanapatel149 Not that good if they're never around when you need them.
kalpanapatel149 · 36-40, F
@DunningKruger it's not they are never. But when I need they are busy for some or the other reason.
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