@SageWanderer It is a deal.breaker with me.

@PoetryNEmotion It probably would be but can’t say for sure.

@SageWanderer I know what I accept. My standards are high. And I know my worth.

@itsok I think that’s what I’d struggle with and it would be no good if I wasn’t 💯 % invested.

@PoetryNEmotion do not come on my threads and insult people in that way. I would not disrespect you in that manner.

@Notsimilarreally I'm so sorry about that...

@Primnproper thanks, it's fine. She has a reputation for acting this way.

@Degbeme well I’ve been married to you for 40 years so I’ve got a good idea 😐

@Plasticbag It`s 49 this month. I want a divorce! 😠

@Plasticbag that’s you on the sofa tonight!!😂😂😂

@mooncrest02 im so sorry, you deserve better..🤗

@Primnproper thank you, yes :/

@eyeno dont blame you, i couldn't do it.

@Animalvan I can understand that.

@Plasticbag Did you get past it completely?

@Primnproper no it destroys you and your relationship

@Plasticbag I believe that too.

@Primnproper indeed. But if it’s important - and not all relationships are - it’s worth the discovery and whatever journey ensues will at least have answers and a broader understanding. Just being angry / hurt benefits no one, and those emotions are a heavy weight to carry around.

@DownTheStreet what you say makes absolute sense and I’m learning this from my daughter’s experience at the moment. Shes handling it amazingly, much better than I would.

@Primnproper good for her - mature - so long as it comes from a growth mindset and not insecurity :)

@Fungirlmmm yes there are definitely many factors involved..

@sstronaut lol no I get it. Calling them trash 🗑️ I think is triggering me tbh 😂

@Notsimilarreally sorry, didn't mean to trigger anyone. And technically, I called the hole they came from trash, not nessarily them.

@sstronaut totally get it. I have a zero tolerance with any infidelity but i understand some that don't want to throw years away if they can help it.

@TravisTx 😂😂 fair enough 👍

@GivetheDevilHerDue i admire anyone that can.

@RenFur high standards then..lol

@Primnproper

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@RenFur hahahaha...nope!

@mindlessdrifter You’re a bigger person than me that’s for sure. 🤗

@Primnproper 🫂

@BLP11520 Agreed 👍

@Primnproper 😊

@Ferric67 ahhh… I see.👍

@MarineBob 👍

@exexec fair enough..👍

@Fluffybull Me neither.

@Primnproper the fact is that she was cheating on someone else when we met. It was foolish on my part to think she'd be any different with me.

@Sevendays yes thats always a worry..

@Primnproper yup

@Patriot96 I’m not surprised..

@meggie I can see why you would think that but I’m not sure if that’s always the case.

@uncalled4 true, I’ve been in that position with friends before.

@Primnproper The thing I never do is judge. I'm that guy who won't pick a side if a couple breaks up.

@uncalled4 I don’t think it should be about judgement but peoples actions, that’s what measures a person in my view their actions.. if they show they are putting in the work and truly invested then fine.

@caccoon good for you..👍

@PoetryNEmotion some of them are I’m afraid that conceited.

@Primnproper He had no conceit. He just did not care. Good evening, Prim. Thanks.