Comparing ourselves to someone else is never going to end well, as you're sadly finding out.

You're beautiful in your own right, and you should always try and remember that whenever you see your friend, rather than letting those thoughts enter your mind.

(I know this is all pretty generic advice, but it's the best i can think of).

It's going to take some time honestly and not going to be easy. But at least you understand that it's a you problem and not a her problem which is a step ahead. Her perceived beauty or attractiveness does not negate your own obviously and she's allowed to take up space and shine as are you. What she looks like is not a threat to you and the feeling is something inside of yourself. It might be something to speak with her about sincerely or even a counselor to figure out why you have the feelings that you do or to help you be more comfortable in your own skin. I hope you get to the bottom of it and can let it go. You'll be so much happier. It really helps you to be able to bond with, celebrate and appreciate other women without that feeling in your heart and mind.

Is your blood group the same as hers?is your dna the same ..never compare with anyone including you siblings for all you know they yearn to be you. And I have seen you up close you are blessed with a beautiful personality ..be greatful

If you had a good friend who thought she was ugly because she wasn’t beautiful like someone else is, how would you respond?

…now why can’t you do that for yourself? You’re just as worthy as love because you are beautiful in your own way just like that good friend you can imagine.

You’re thinking only about the blessing, not the curse. You may not have a clue what she deals with. Imagine every single asshoke that thinks he has a shot pestering her. And, some don’t take “no” easily. An old ex of mine had that problem. Just watching it was painful and I’m chill af. They’d walk right up and talk to her even with me there. Now admittedly I was a dozen years older. Perhaps they just thought I was a friend.

Just be careful what you wish for. What I noted is just one problem. There are many more…

i know exactly how you feel. but there will always be someone sexier, prettier, smarter, than you but there will never be another you. so celebrate what your life and enjoy your friend.

Sexy and hot are subjective. You may be sexier and hotter than her to others. IMO...There is more than just looks that make a woman sexy. Intelligence, attitude, and attire are just a few. Dont sell yourself short.

you don't, you're both individuals with strengths and weaknesses... Looks fade, personality just gets better..

Stop being so hard on yourself, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Lots of people would find you “hotter”, personal taste.

I don’t know, but you look adorable in your profile pic and I’d like to chat with you!

You’re quite gorgeous in your own right
Most definitely no need to compare yourself

Hmmmmmm
Without seeing both of you it's hard to give good advice

Dont worry, you are stunning

I don’t.

Whatever Patrick.

Comparing yourself to other people is always a bad idea. There will always be someone you perceive to be better looking, more intelligent, more successful or whatever.

Compare yourself to no one but yourself.

Never compare yourself to anyone, you concentrate on being your best.

Dont do that

Become a catfish

Find a ugly friend 😜

when you figure it out let the rest of us know how too