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Morrowind · 26-30, M
Last time I went to a graduation to watch my bro graduate 90% of the graduate were women and all graduating with phd were women
Morrowind · 26-30, M
@MartinTheFirst look bro, I’m on your side with a lot of shit not being fair about women for example they serve way less prison time than men for anything they do but to say they’re lazy is the reason is a bad attitude. It’s not true, if it was I’d agree
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Morrowind im just kidding
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@MartinTheFirst Probably gender studies or basket weaving 😂

The problem here is even if we accept that it is all explainable by choice (it is not).


But say that is true.

It is the height of ignorance born out of privilege to just assume everyone is given the same choices.

And you also seem to buy into the proven myths that men and women are genetically predisposed to interests that just happen to line up with cultural stereotypes.

Ever consider that part of why women were not so mechanically inclined because when I was in school girls were barred from even taking automotive or shop classes.

Research has shown in the tech sector women have been marginalized for decades too. How are you supposed to learn something if they won't even let you in the classroom?


And sure, you might be right about women taking more time off or not working late. But just spitballing here but maybe that is because on top of working they are still expected to do all the stereotypical household stuff like cook, clean, look after children.


And talk to any stay at home dad and they will tell you the first thing everyone assumes about him is that he fucked up his career somehow. Nobody even considers that a man would look after the house and kids voluntarily.

Women often have the equivalent of two full time jobs and one is unpaid but is expected of them anyway.

Discrimination and bias are not always blatantly obvious. Especially if you just accept stereotypes and social conventions like this as being biological imperatives.
@SteelHands Well we know know your idea of "normal" is stuck 100 years in the past. it is not the 1930s anymore. Beating the crap out of your wife was considered normal and raping your wife was not a crime in that same era. Not really sure that is something to look fondly at.
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basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@SteelHands what caveman horsesh*t is that? Cooking, laundry, cleaning is not a "woman's job" or for that matter a man's job. It's called being a responsible adult with basic life skills.
You have just explained the correlation of the gender pay gap and misogyny. My hope is that one day you have a female boss who works your butt off.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Pinkstarburst i've got bored of explaining it to you, on a whole, i relay information to ANYONE {whether make or female} so that a Village Idiot can understand it, but YOU are still not grasping it
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@Pinkstarburst So [b]facts[/b] are "misogynistic" are they? 😂
@FormerAtheist Those are facts according to your opinion. And yes, your explanation is very misogynistic. Nowhere did you provide anything that would warrant them to be facts.

You are ignorant to the value of women who are actually excelling in STEM while being paid less than men.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Well, glad we got that one sorted out 😐

The gender wage gap is the differential in wages between women and men doing the same job. I like to talk and socialise, but funnily enough I ended up working in financial services (conversely my wife hates socialising but went into nursing).

It was difficult to gain a first footing on my career ladder, then difficult to get anyone in a male-dominated industry to take me seriously, primarily because of my gender. I have changed jobs about three times as frequently as my male contemporaries, simply to make standard career progress. All of this has impacted negatively on my pay.

It is only since I started developing my own statistical modelling (then hired myself back to the market as a freelance) that I have gained reward appropriate to my skills and efforts.
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@SunshineGirl Of course there will be those who don't quite fit into this neat little picture, but [i]on average[/i], all other considerations aside, what I've written here is generally true. And yes, the gender wage gap would be real if it were the case that, again on average and across most fields, men and women were not paid equally to do the exact same job. But of course if that were the case, then employers would be insane to not hire only women; they're CHEAPER!
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@FormerAtheist The wage gap is an objective reality. Larger organisations in the UK are obliged by law to publish these statistics and commit to mitigation strategies.

If people and organisations acted rationally all the time there would be no discrimination in the first place. Unfortunately recruiters and employers are naturally biased towards people who look, think and act like them, and promote those who are less likely to challenge their authority or disrupt established practice.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Strange way to explain it, let alone justify it.]

There is no reason at all for men and women in the same roles in the same work for the same company not to receive the same pay, irrespective of the work. They may be in the "professions" like Law, Science, Medicine or Engineering; or at middling levels, or doing necessary but humdrum work like staffing supermarket tills or cleaning schools - each woman should still be paid the same as her male colleague.

The idea of pay being controlled by some assumed ideas of difference in interest and taste, and on notions like that women are far less analytical than men is not only based on a sweeping generalisation, is plainly absurd.

There are plenty of female mathematicians, scientists, engineers and lawyers, and those are all highly analytical professions in their own ways.

If a man earns $100 (£, yen, euro, etc.) for every [i]N[/i] hours of work then the woman next to him doing the same work should earn $100 (etc) too.

Essentially you are justifying old-fashioned discrimination based merely on, I am ashamed to say, my own sex (male) thinking itself somehow superior to the other; and inventing daft excuses for it.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@ArishMell Never know. There's lots of people who want to see this country ruined.

It's not as if your own wouldn't like to see ours knocked down a peg Margeret Thatcher style like yours was.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SteelHands I was NOT commenting on how well or not your country might be run if some future President happens to be female.

And I'd leave it to you to exalt or drag her down.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@ArishMell Do not presume to open a beef with me regarding the WORLD'S various heads of states or..

Those halls of power to which any female would find herself fighting if that country elects a woman to deal inside said halls of power.

Plain as I can make it buddy. Time to put that simple idealist nonsensical fairness nonsense to rest.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Hold up 😂 I've done traditional men's jobs in the past, made much less than the lazy dudes I worked with, did twice the work while they got high and then got fired because my ass was "distracting"...

No.
Torsten · 36-40, M
because some women want to feel oppressed and just ignore the evidence that proves they're not oppressed
Torsten · 36-40, M
@PatKirby yep thats it but people who play victim, dont give a shit about anyone but themselves so that wont bother them
PatKirby · M
@FormerAtheist

Yep, it's a double-scam of a flim-flam shim-sham!
PatKirby · M
@Torsten

Sounds like the show masters in the DNC and Demonic Party who've perfected it to a modern art form, while bait & switching their promises to their loyal constituents - then abandoning them as usual. Just another day at the office for them.
[quote] Men have greater ambition, work longer hours, are far more willing to sacrifice their leisure time with family in order to make it to the top of the corporate ladder. Women take far more holidays, sick leave, and are FAR more likely to opt to work part-time rather than full-time. [/quote]

Do you at least work in a Human Resources department, where you might have some statistics that you’re relying on [b]for that company or industry[/b] ? Because otherwise you sound very biased and ignorant. 🙄
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Politics. Emotional control over women is part of the Leftist platform.

Grievance groupings divide society. This enables bad actors to attempt more government control. A pretense of solving fake issues lets them make more laws and create new violations of those laws.

Don't worry though. They'll be going after women in due time.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SteelHands I don't know at whom that's directed, but I do trust our news organisations on the whole. They make clear what are reports and what are opinions. The newspapers have their own biases to their own extents, but they are well-known and easy to allow for.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@ArishMell Lucky you. Lol
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SteelHands Thankyou!

It's not that difficult to judge if a news source is politically biased: compare its coverage of the same matters with that of other reporters. Examine if it gives reasonably fair coverage of both sides of divisive ones. Examine its critics.

If for example, a particular organisation is attacked as "right-wing" by left-leaning types, while also attacked as "left-wing" by right-leaning types, it must be fairly neutral! Usually the attacks from any one faction are for it daring to let the other faction have its say as well.

While at work, it was not only me lucky generally, but of course, lucky for the women to be treated with respect.
It does often come down to choice indeed. For example, men tend to aim for higher paying jobs like doctor, pilot or lawyer, whereas women more often pick lower paying jobs like female doctor, female pilot or female lawyer.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl Oh, we can make all the laws we need but that won't change ignorance and cruelty that are ingrained attitudes, overnight.

Short? I am short too: I'd have exactly the same difficulties... only I would deal with the bags separately, not struggle with both at once!
@ArishMell Education around employment rights and laws might help to make sure that people are given the information they need when they go to work before they leave school, though - but that means that you can't teach careers in the school library because the teacher would be required to actually teach something that might be useful.

They can't... They either juggle both or they get kicked off their course. This created much debate in one shop because the manager was happy for taller people to do what shorter people couldn't - but the assessors stuck to their guns and insisted that shorter people were treated exactly the same.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl Interesting thought: schools teaching at least the basics of employee / employer law, rights and responsibilities. Along with other grown-up matters like basic finance.

It might even be more important than careers "advice" that anyway can only be very generic, and may be influenced by individual teachers' knowledge and even prejudices. After all, most teachers are people who have never left school!

So it could work, though I'm not sure how.

.....

That shop, or group of assessors, may have been an anomaly. I have never heard of any problems around people's heights, elsewhere. Just as well because I am short!

The basic requirement under UK health-and-safety law is that appropriate equipment is provided to help people do their work safely and properly. This may be selected following a formal risk-assessment; and certainly can include step-stools and short ladders for access to shelves.

Though it's not unknown for managers frightened of responsibilities put on them, to impose rather absurd interpretations of the regulations. Like those assessors who tried to make height an "equality" matter instead of just saying, provide step-ladders. One place I worked had equipment-frames that needed such frequent access, that they were fitted permanently with wooden steps suspended from runners on steel tracks.

Or nervous managers set local rules that mean well but are not thought through. For example, I once saw a store-keepers standing on top of a full-size shipping container (roof about 8 feet above ground) to hook crane slings into its lifting-points. He was wearing a controlled-break type fall-arrest harness, but he could clip it only into the nearest hooking cube, by his feet as he stood at each corner of the container. Errr..... Oh, it's all right. He had his safety-boots and hard hat on.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Never have I ever witnessed a woman being paid less, or having less opportunity, than a man in a professional setting.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
@FormerAtheist I’d hope if you experienced it you’d confront it immediately. Real men would support you. As you well know, freedoms need to be defended at times. Those who think there’s a problem are only useful if they have the courage to act in the moment - as opposed to just be internet brave and think holding a sign on a street corner is “change”.
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@DownTheStreet [quote]I’d hope if you experienced it you’d confront it immediately[/quote].

And do what, exactly? I've never been in a position where, if such a thing had occurred, I'd have been able to do something to change it.

[quote]As you well know, freedoms need to be defended at times.[/quote]

Such brave words. Defended how? Using what?
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@DownTheStreet They were all paid properly in my work, where many of my superiors - at one stage including the CEO- were women.

There was even a system to equate relative levels of skill and grade across all fields of the entire organisation: admin, technical and support so no-one was treated unfairly simply by being in one field rather than the other.
Stirring up the hornets nest? 😂
A female friend of mine is an HR director, and she actually speaks to women's groups about this issue. A huge factor is that women aren't as aggressive in salary negotiations as men. Motherhood is another factor, leading to taking more part-time jobs, which skews the numbers.
@SunshineGirl every job has wage negotiation potential...dismissing that is a huge part of the issue.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@BizSuitStacy Not in the public sector. There is a narrow wage range for each job. You start at the bottom while you are training and progress to the top when you are proficient.
@SunshineGirl who the hell wants to work in the public sector? Odd too, since that's where the unfair narrative always comes from.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
If employment was a logical process and employers were logical with out other biases I would agree with "If it were true that women got, let's say, 77 cents for every dollar earned by a man to do the exact same job, don't you think employers would do all they could to get away with hiring only women?"

But many employers still believe that men work harder and are more decisive than women, irrespective of what happens in most of their homes.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Stats are always malleable.

How is wage disparity defined? Does it include W4 dependent deductions of married 2 income households and non married women in no child one income living with parents? Does that include non employer employee purchases of benefits such as selected health group costs, employee 401k plan contributions?

Self employment?

Skilled tradesman? Unskilled labor force?

All temp positions?

Skilled and executive positions by average or aggregate totals?

Statistical hijinx is a buyable commodity.

Anyone that uses them as evidence is usually cherry picking the data.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@Nitedoc I didn't want to say surveys made with vaguely interpretive terminology, delimited locuses in time and duration, over inclusive sets or ignoring the system dynamics.

Any well bought survey maker knows how to create beans from bs.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@SteelHands True. It's not hard to make stats say what you want them to.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@Nitedoc Can they? Yes, and for some, just call them the go to reality convertor. To magically make the incredulous into plausability lickety split, just contact your friendly poll taking statistical analyst. They can convince any talking head that they're not cartoon talking.

It's no secret any more. Making the absurd real is what many of them do best. Hyperinflation? Just call it publicly supported funding for positive offset inflation reduction. It's not system rigging and cheating. It's misinformation suppression by way of informational timing. Supported by the majority, of course.

Lol
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Since I was prevented from commenting further by the fish named basil I'll just leave this right here:::



It is so cliche. I have my opinion and some pantiwaist kimquat butts in making ad hominem comments about cavemen.

There can be no debate with a feminazi about whether women can or want to wade in knee deep sewage auguring out a clog with them. There can be no debate that a mans hands are too large to pull inside out baby shirt sleeves back from there dryer, fabric and dye sort the loads, select cycles, or choose interior color coordinates.

Us men all gotta have a string in our asz like him apparently, and all women gotta own a no parts (spelled backwards) and buzz off her hair so she looks like a carpet muncher.
G0ddess · F
Wage gap is typical victim mentality, if you wanna make money get into STEM not useless majors
Guitarman123 · 31-35, M
@G0ddess https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/03/01/the-enduring-grip-of-the-gender-pay-gap/#:~:text=The%20gender%20pay%20gap%20%E2%80%93%20the,80%20cents%20to%20the%20dollar.
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@G0ddess I actually tried to go the STEM route when I was at university, but I failed at it because my mathematical skills just weren't good enough to actually pass. 😂
Anton · 56-60, M
Women need to be given "an allowance" and not a salary.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Anton Why? A women working in the same job as a man at the same company at the same job grade should be paid the same. No distinction.
Anton · 56-60, M
@zonavar68 Women aren't responsible with money. When they get more than they need they start spending it what ever they want and this overspending leads to them getting addicted to it. Then they demand more. Then they get depressed when they can't have more, then they start abusing their medical benefits for drugs such as antidepressants and sleeping tablets. Then medical subscription fees goes up for everyone and others suffer too. No, women need to be paid minimum wage and in the form of coupons.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Anton That's a very obnoxious point of view. I think we (men) are far less 'responsible' with money, but in the main it doesn't matter - money and affluence leads to greed and both men and women are the same in that department.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Women are underpaid compared to men in the same job
A reality
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@Strictmichael75 [quote]Women are underpaid compared to men in the same job
A reality
[/quote]
Really? Prove it.
FormerAtheist · 26-30
@ArishMell [quote/]Which country, by the way? In some that would be illegal.][/quote]
Exactly, and in Australia, where I live, it's been illegal since I think the early 1970's.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@FormerAtheist my wife was
My daughter is an executive and she is!
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
[quote]don't you think employers would do all they could to get away with hiring only women?[/quote]

Some companies do exactly that. I worked for one. They seemed to deliberately hire young women after graduation or women after maternal leave about whom they know they will shut up and try their best because they don't have many options.
It's no myth. Statistics comparing people in the same jobs with the same seniority still show a gender gap. Even when "selection" is accounted for, there's still a gender gap.

[quote]When comparing women and men with the same job title, seniority level and hours worked, a gender gap of 11% still exists in terms of take-home pay. Feb 27, 2023[/quote]
[b]https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/gender-pay-gap-statistics/[/b]

The following is from Feb 2018
[quote] Female Uber drivers make 7% less per hour than their male counterparts—even though the algorithms that determine pay for the ride-hailing service are gender blind, according to a multi-year study.

The study, led by economists, examined data from more than 1.8 million drivers and 740 million Uber trips in the United States between January 2015 and March 2017. The paper, called “Gender Earnings Gap in the Gig Economy: Evidence From Over a Million Rideshare Drivers,” was written by five economists, including two employed by Uber, two Stanford professors, and John List, chairman of the University of Chicago economics department. List is also the chief economist at Uber.

The gender wage gap has persisted—with women making just under 89 cents on a man’s dollar in 2016—even as females have been returning to the U.S. labor force in greater numbers. [/quote]
[b]https://fortune.com/2018/02/06/uber-gender-pay-gap-study/[/b]
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Because stupid people will believe literally anything they are told
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
It certainly does manifest itself in corporate/admin/salaried positions where most people tend to be employed on individual contracts, but on wage positions where most people tend to work on hourly rates there's no gender pay gap and never really has been since organised workplace bargaining secured rights for workers.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
In my job (freight train driver) all staff of the same grade operating under the same employment agreement at the company I work for get paid the same. There's never been any men vs women pay disparity.

It's really only an issue perceived to exist in admin/corporate/executive/government business areas.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
You certainly deserve less pay
WandererTony · 56-60, M
I cannot agree with this
Bumbles · 51-55, M
It’s so engrained, good luck ever getting rid of it.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SunshineGirl I'm not sure how you can say no direct input/output correlation for agriculture because it produces physical goods, but teaching and caring can't show that almost by definition. Their professions are physically obvious, as they teach or care for real people, but in services that are vital but can only ever be one-way expenses.

Yet the financial "services" seem to be worshipped by what you call "liberal free-marketeers" despite many of them producing nothing obvious for no-one obvious. Obviously I rely very distantly and indirectly on some parts of the financial services for my pensions, but I often wonder what functional value some of the others' work really has, despite it making (not necessarily "earning") high wages.

The farmers, teachers and nurses do have strong unions, but I take your point about the relatively large female workforce.

I think nursing is generally seen as skilled, but caring is not; but by vague status of occupation, not the sex of the employees.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@ArishMell The point with agriculture is that most farmers in the UK do not or cannot sell directly to the end consumer. They are dependent upon intermediaries (the supermarkets and government via DEFRA) for getting their produce to market and making their enterprises economically sustainable (through subsidy). The market does not on the whole price their output correctly (if it did, there would probably be widespread discontent).

It's actually quite easy to evaluate output for teaching and nursing with the correct terms of reference (I used to do it as part of my job at the Treasury). The problem is that this creates inconvenient truths (ie. that the labour of both teachers and nurses is grossly under-priced) that few people wish to hear.

The basic nursing qualification was given parity with a bachelirs degree in the UK. That is a recognition of its technical complexity that has not been matched by an uplift in wages (nursing and caring have had to be excluded from the minimum wage cap for migrant jobs - a recognition that these are difficult to fill jobs, while at the same time undervaluing them on the market).

I agree that financial services are over-valued, and I work in the sector myself. Like many white collar professions, entry is tightly controlled by professional regulatory bodies - in effect creating a cartel for qualified members.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SunshineGirl Thank you for explaining it.

I have a lot of sympathy for the farmers, and I have never had any connection except as eventual customer. For years the big supermarkets were accused of paying them less than the production prices, which effectively is theft. I don't know if that has been put right. Another problem they face is that even some of the franchise-chains like Central have been stopped from supporting local producers (and selling local-demand goods like descalers), by remote head-office managers. They are also under pressure from all sorts of non-governmental outsiders trying to tell them how to run their own land and businesses.

I think the whole area of fair salaries for all is so messy and so skewed by public perception, I don't see any sensible way out of it. When young people emerge from school or university they must wonder what has the real [i]value[/i], the underpaid but highly-skilled technical role in the sciences, medicine, law or teaching; or the over-paid world of show-business, sports and social-media "influencing".

Incidentally, I wonder how those "influencers" based in the UK, pay their Income-tax and NI?
It's not a myth. But I don't know if there is still a gap. I don't read that much about politics and current affairs.
Men used to be the bread winners. I don't know about now. I read somewhere that men make less now than they used to.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Spoiledbrat cuz we have to share it with you bastards (jkjk)
Alyosha · 31-35, M
The left pushes the narrative because they think it advances their cause.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Alyosha The neo-conservatives are the ones mostly pushing for, creating, and ensuring the survival of inequality and oppression. That makes it a right-wing problem.
How do they calculate gender wage gaps when they also claim there's 53 different genders? 🤔
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
If we truly want equality we need to immediately incarcerate several million women .
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It's all subjective. It's a fact of life that either men or women have to statistically have the upper hand in some things, because there's only two options. Expecting 50/50 equality across the board is beyond unreasonable, it's delusional, it doesn't work that way. Furthermore, you can't rely on statistics that show that there are gender gaps or not, since the problem is so complex with so many confounders and variables, such as experience, social skills, effort and time spent, etc etc etc... things you can not even begin to give a score to. People just like to argue.
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
Opinion at conflict with published proof.
Interesting read.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Amen to that
SteelHands · 61-69, M
[media=https://youtu.be/jlZ8Vx0gxTI]
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
My take on it, is that it's a load of BS, the real reason behind it all, is to create tension and strife between male and female ... then that leads onto not wanting to be with each other, so eventually no children, so to quote Klaus Swaub of the WEF, there will be fewer 'USELESS FEEDERS" on the planet
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
All this nonsense it to create division in society, nothing more

 
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