whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@OogieBoogie Your second last line is the key. Weaning is the gentle withdrawing of what you have become reliant on and that causes some distress..😷
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@OogieBoogie yup yup yup
OogieBoogie · F
@whowasthatmaskedman yes...weaning :
GENTLE withdrawal....NO distress .
Weaning isn't the same thing as withdrawal. It's a slow detaching from something ....usually by replacing that something with something else .
GENTLE withdrawal....NO distress .
Weaning isn't the same thing as withdrawal. It's a slow detaching from something ....usually by replacing that something with something else .
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@SW-User of course!
TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F
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@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart agreed haha!
Matt85 · 36-40, M
Yah thats horrible :(
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
It really is and most people that say that have no children of there own. So they dont understand how hard it is for a mothere to just let her baby cry
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GerOttman · 61-69, M
@SW-User at that age we were pretty much holding them all the time anyway. (twins)
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@GerOttman twins must’ve been a challenge!!🥹
Jstbanannas1991 · 31-35, F
I couldn’t do that.
'oh, no You can't do that with cast iron; Let me show you'
Flowergirl32 · 31-35, F
For real girl 100%
Let it cry. Its not a big deal
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
OogieBoogie · F
It is
it's a total bullshit saying .
Baby's cry for a reason ....it's their only way to communicate distress.
You NEVER let the baby cry.
This is why we have so many narcissists, BPD, emotionally disassociative or maladjusted individuals these days: trauma from being neglected as a toddler or younger .
it's a total bullshit saying .
Baby's cry for a reason ....it's their only way to communicate distress.
You NEVER let the baby cry.
This is why we have so many narcissists, BPD, emotionally disassociative or maladjusted individuals these days: trauma from being neglected as a toddler or younger .
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@OogieBoogie oh hi that’s me
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User sadly .you are one of too many.
This was a terrible parenting technique handed down through generations.
Even I was given this advice from my mother in law ....whose own children grew up with terrible ego and identity issues ... bar the middle child .it's a brutal way to parent .
Not even chips or gorillas do it .
This was a terrible parenting technique handed down through generations.
Even I was given this advice from my mother in law ....whose own children grew up with terrible ego and identity issues ... bar the middle child .it's a brutal way to parent .
Not even chips or gorillas do it .