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OogieBoogie · F
It is
it's a total bullshit saying .
Baby's cry for a reason ....it's their only way to communicate distress.
You NEVER let the baby cry.
This is why we have so many narcissists, BPD, emotionally disassociative or maladjusted individuals these days: trauma from being neglected as a toddler or younger .
it's a total bullshit saying .
Baby's cry for a reason ....it's their only way to communicate distress.
You NEVER let the baby cry.
This is why we have so many narcissists, BPD, emotionally disassociative or maladjusted individuals these days: trauma from being neglected as a toddler or younger .

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@OogieBoogie oh hi that’s me
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User sadly .you are one of too many.
This was a terrible parenting technique handed down through generations.
Even I was given this advice from my mother in law ....whose own children grew up with terrible ego and identity issues ... bar the middle child .it's a brutal way to parent .
Not even chips or gorillas do it .
This was a terrible parenting technique handed down through generations.
Even I was given this advice from my mother in law ....whose own children grew up with terrible ego and identity issues ... bar the middle child .it's a brutal way to parent .
Not even chips or gorillas do it .