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My experience of this site thus far.

I must admit that I joined this site in the hope that it would be a similar experience, a worthy alternative, to the old EP site( experience project) RIP.

I do understand why EP had to die, it became so popular that it eventually became top heavy with drug pedelers and the site itself became an accessory to crime, as the equation: bad guys > moderators = shut down, proved in its reason to end.

But what i miss most is the true life stories i read about on there and the "grit" in those stories, its hard to define 'the grit' that im talking about.

It's like the type of raw uncensored honesty that you see in the scibblings of someone who has found solace in the anonimity of a site that lets them express themselves freely without fear of censorship or reprisal - for expressing the truth, im talking about Free Speech!

But 'grit' is more than just free speech its like the blue colour of steel that has been tempered by the heat of the fire(s)that forged the blade.

The stories i read where basically someone showing the world their "steel".

I want to experience reading that, here, i want to find those stories, and those people who are brave enough to express themselves to the world.

In these times, in world where AI and 'the metaverse' now exist - the beginnings of 'the matrix' - albeit a stone age version of 'the matrix' - AI lives on the internet and its a useful tool for moderating the content that real humans create and post on sites like this, yes, it exists now, but it didnt exist in its current form when EP was alive..

Which brings me to the reason for posting this, my question, i wonder dear reader, is this:

How much of the content we are reading here is real, and how much of it is editted and moderated by the big AI?

While i find 'the grit' again? Am looking in the right place? And even if i look in the gutters the dustbins and dark alleys of the web, while i find the real dirt of peoples lives and experiences, posted for all to see? Or am i only seeing what a sanitised, censored and muzzled version, has the AI maid 'cleaned' these spaces for our deemed benefit and the delight of that maids' master?

Reader please help me find that grit im looking for.

i hope to find it on this site, unless everyone is holding back their grit for memoirs and a lucrative publishing deal one day, holding onto it and giving us a watered down version of their life experiences here on SW, scared that they will lose their most valuable insights if they publish it.

Thanks for reading.
SW-User
I bring the grit, but you won't find many people here who like it. I maybe had 10 blocks on EP, here I have about 300. A lot of people here are in their own little cliques and you're not allowed in if you don't kiss each other's asses and have the same penchant for grossness or snobbishness or hate spreading.
WizardofOz · 26-30, M
@PhoenixPhail Truer words were never spoken. I don't block anyone. I don't care how vulgar they get toward me. I will eventually ignore them, for the most part but I might comment on something they posted if it's obviously not true.
@WizardofOz The only people I've blocked, are those I've come to find out have been catfishing me, and those who insist on shoving Jesus down my throat, even after I tell them I'll block them if they don't stop. I hate it when people need for me to join their club because of their insecurity.
SW-User
@SW-User I’m an outlier and I love it. I write post that few people read.
Probably best to look at this site with fresh eyes rather than hope for something from the past. If nothing else, lower expectations can hopefully lead to being pleasantly surprised.
@Rudboy41 Lol….. get the Libby app, you can access library books 24 hours a day. Seriously though, I wasn’t on EP so can’t speak on having that experience. However I really do believe, though at times it can seem like looking for a needle in a haystack, that there is grit to be found here.Take some time to get to know people and you might be surprised what they reveal.
Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
@OlderSometimesWiser thanks i tried the app but my library card isnt on the database, it appears we only have one big online library hosted by the city library and you have to register in person at that library to get an access number to get access to its online books, if i find time then ill drive there to get registered.
@Rudboy41 Think you’ll find it worth the drive, it’s a great app.
Magenta · F
Not sure you will find that again on any social platform, it has changed from what it once was.

I'm not one to reveal my deeper self to the masses. Yet once upon a time I wrote and shared much more of my feelings, etc..
Beyond just not feeling it here anymore, the very small town vibe is a big turn off for me. It's like being in a circle confession (yikes) or the spot light as someone else mentioned. When "stories" were separate from Q & A it was far more conducive for wanting to share.
I feel there is more judgement now and since many of us have history with others, your words can be misconstrued and/or used against you.

I do enjoy a few who share that grit. I guess if you are looking for the grit, you could start posting it?
@Rudboy41 The quality of people who appreciate and who would post that kind of material are rare here. All the effort for no one to read nor comment? It exists elsewhere. Good luck. Time is precious. Not to be wasted on masses of illiterates and tech addicts.
Magenta · F
@Rudboy41 Good. You go. Most seem to only want mindless entertainment.
Ha! I like the "Dog Brain" scenario. 🤭
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Magenta I thought somebody said my posts were full of grit, but then you don't spell grit with an s and an h.
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
I noticed that too, I shared my personal stories a lot easier on EP because there was so many, it didnt feel like you were on the spot like that but here its mostly fun and playful, sarcastic and fake posts that even if you posted a real story it would most likely get drowned out. Still, Ive seen some pages that write whats in their heart and what life has dealt them you just have to look harder and if you look at the comments of certain stories or questions youll see real people sharing and interacting..
We don't do that here. bye
blackarcher256 · 61-69, M
I’m new here…a former EP person. I’m holding back nothing in my replies. However, what I have found on SW is a level of animosity and belligerence from many if you dare to express any opinion that doesn’t align with their myopic, narrow-minded, view of the world. That, in and of itself may be what ultimately makes me leave here. To be candid, because of recent events in my life, I’m walking a lonely, hard road…burdened with sorrows and regrets. I was hopeful that, like EP, SW would be an outlet and a way to reconnect with the world. But it doesn’t seem to hold that promise.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
It’s here but you have to really look for it. EP was a different time with a different group of people. This is the world we live in, for better or worse.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
How much of the content we are reading here is real, and how much of it is editted and moderated by the big AI?
Everything I post here is my own work or is something I am quoting for a reason. None of it is edited by anyone or anything else. A lot of it documents my personal reinvention. Not sure there's much grit in it though.

There's grit here though if you care to look. For instance read @LordShadowfire's posts, or @being's.
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ArtieKat · M
Interesting read but I think that after 8 years there may be a bit of "rose-coloured spectacles" about EP. We're all 8 years older
WillaKissing · 56-60
I post just as real here as I did on EP, and I do not believe it has a thing to do with AI or that other crap.

What I see here mostly, and way more than I ever saw on EP is the wining or poor me, or people hounding other people's profiles for their own personal sexual gratification.

I posted about my steel and others have too, you just have to weed through the garden to find them now is all.

Look at my white board if you want blue steel content, I posted it on posts here too.
Lilymoon · F
This site is beyond serious. It's just an inane place to have a laugh or two. Serious questions and posts don't get the recognition. You can't take anything personal or it will run you off the site.
Take it for what it is, is my best advice.
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Lilymoon takes all your butter tarts 😌
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Lilymoon You must be exaggerating.
SW-User
I'm not sharing my grit. It's too fine.
melissa001 · 51-55, F
Go to my profile and see my posts. I write poetry too and I write them from my heart. No one has to like them but it's out there.

Also I find that not many people read posts that are long. Keeping it short gets comments.
@melissa001 Poetry is not followed much here. I write mine on other sites. On EP, many followed me for my stories and poems. I suggest you find another site where it is appreciated. This site is superficial. Superficial Worlds. Ha.
melissa001 · 51-55, F
Those stories you seek died with EP. It is more superficial here. Few write honestly. Rare are worthy stories even. Lots of fly by nighters here. Lots of scrap members from other dying sites. I hear you though.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
“Top heavy” is the very reason I joined EP.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
There is some of the grit here, I used to share more of myself but I find it just gets used against me so I really don’t bother with that anymore.

I mainly come here to support others and laugh.

There are lots of real people but there are also lots of catfish too.
We're in a more acrimonious social period

The heart of the EP groups was "I live in a sexless marriage" which reflected its origins as a social support network
@blackarcher256 You are an old lion, but nevertheless still a lion. Same here on a nice chat. Rockin' it! Bye.
blackarcher256 · 61-69, M
@PoetryNEmotion Still laughing….I like my imagery better, but we’ll go with yours. Bye.
@blackarcher256 Oh, I have this image of you. Toothy. Smiling. A bit weary. Maybe bedraggled even. But noble. So noble. And experienced. Am I right? LOL. Catch you later, lion. Laugh more! It suits you! :)
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Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
@allygator18 id like to try southern style grit with cheese n ham, the movie was great too, if you like westerns.

 
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