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My experience of this site thus far.

I must admit that I joined this site in the hope that it would be a similar experience, a worthy alternative, to the old EP site( experience project) RIP.

I do understand why EP had to die, it became so popular that it eventually became top heavy with drug pedelers and the site itself became an accessory to crime, as the equation: bad guys > moderators = shut down, proved in its reason to end.

But what i miss most is the true life stories i read about on there and the "grit" in those stories, its hard to define 'the grit' that im talking about.

It's like the type of raw uncensored honesty that you see in the scibblings of someone who has found solace in the anonimity of a site that lets them express themselves freely without fear of censorship or reprisal - for expressing the truth, im talking about Free Speech!

But 'grit' is more than just free speech its like the blue colour of steel that has been tempered by the heat of the fire(s)that forged the blade.

The stories i read where basically someone showing the world their "steel".

I want to experience reading that, here, i want to find those stories, and those people who are brave enough to express themselves to the world.

In these times, in world where AI and 'the metaverse' now exist - the beginnings of 'the matrix' - albeit a stone age version of 'the matrix' - AI lives on the internet and its a useful tool for moderating the content that real humans create and post on sites like this, yes, it exists now, but it didnt exist in its current form when EP was alive..

Which brings me to the reason for posting this, my question, i wonder dear reader, is this:

How much of the content we are reading here is real, and how much of it is editted and moderated by the big AI?

While i find 'the grit' again? Am looking in the right place? And even if i look in the gutters the dustbins and dark alleys of the web, while i find the real dirt of peoples lives and experiences, posted for all to see? Or am i only seeing what a sanitised, censored and muzzled version, has the AI maid 'cleaned' these spaces for our deemed benefit and the delight of that maids' master?

Reader please help me find that grit im looking for.

i hope to find it on this site, unless everyone is holding back their grit for memoirs and a lucrative publishing deal one day, holding onto it and giving us a watered down version of their life experiences here on SW, scared that they will lose their most valuable insights if they publish it.

Thanks for reading.
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Magenta · F
Not sure you will find that again on [i]any[/i] social platform, it has changed from what it once was.

I'm not one to reveal my deeper self to the masses. Yet once upon a time I wrote and shared much more of my feelings, etc..
Beyond just not feeling it here anymore, the very small town vibe is a big turn off for me. It's like being in a circle confession (yikes) or the spot light as someone else mentioned. When "stories" were separate from Q & A it was far more conducive for wanting to share.
I feel there is more judgement now and since many of us have history with others, your words can be misconstrued and/or used against you.

I do enjoy a few who share that grit. I guess if you are looking for the grit, you could start posting it?
@Magenta Hey,M! Your words are the truth. Have a golden Sunday! I am at work, but rockin' it once I wake up! LOL. * leaves you a large armful of fresh spring flowers. * Because you sing to me! :)
Magenta · F
@PoetryNEmotion Hi! Aw, thank you.
Mmm *scoops them up and inhales deeply*😍

May your work day be the very best.

@Magenta You are the sweetest flower here, M. I am waking up! :)
Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
@Magenta i plan to, watch this space, maybe start a 'freedom writers' section, see what type of cargo this ship can carry.

And expect two categories of response from anyone who interacts with the contents: (1) REM ( reflect/relate, empathise, make a plan) (2) Dog brain ( if you cant eat it or play with it, piss on it and walk away)
@Rudboy41 The quality of people who appreciate and who would post that kind of material are rare here. All the effort for no one to read nor comment? It exists elsewhere. Good luck. Time is precious. Not to be wasted on masses of illiterates and tech addicts.
Magenta · F
@Rudboy41 Good. You go. Most seem to only want mindless entertainment.
Ha! I like the "Dog Brain" scenario. 🤭
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Magenta I thought somebody said my posts were full of grit, but then you don't spell grit with an s and an h.