What does it mean when a guy you’re texting is constantly deleting your chats ?

@UnderstandMe You have a right to want something different regardless of your decision, just wanted to say that 🤗

You are only stuck if you choose to be stuck. Why can’t you unstick yourself? @UnderstandMe

@Carissimi I will now take a drastic step .Thanks for clearing that out for me

@SatyrService my first reaction was the same as yours as well

@UnderstandMe he has a girlfriend lol...or he is interested in another girl and does not want her to see the texts..

@revenant Either way i dont find it comfortable talking to him

@UnderstandMe Honestly, if he doesn't understand that, you might not have any choice but to block him or just mute his messages so you don't get them. Some people, unfortunately can't understand or take the hint sometimes. I do hope things work out for you in this scenario though and he'll eventually understand that by telling you want him to leave you alone you want him to respect that.

@AstroZombie You’re spot on there .He becomes all dramatic when i dont respond to his messages yet he’s the one who is hideous.
.I feel wasted

@UnderstandMe I'm sorry you're going through all that :(

@UnderstandMe Blocking isn't any more lame or rude than seeing someone else and stringing you along which is what he's doing so I would suggest blocking and moving on with your life. But if you're not ready to, you can just accept the relationship as it is and continue to be with him.

The reason I say blocking isn't all that bad is because you're still around him, it's probably likely he promises the world to you but it never happens. If you tried to talk to him about it and he isn't ready to leave who he is seeing, you will just continue to be strung along. So in that aspect, blocking isn't really all that lame, unless you accept the relationship for what it is.

@SatanBurger as much as it is hard to believe,he is stringing me definitely

@UnderstandMe I also really want to tell you about trauma bonding, you'll feel very bad for blocking or going cold on him but the feeling isn't warranted and it will pass. I know the exact feeling and it feels "bad" but the feeling you're going through isn't correct. It will pass though, if given time to.

@Carissimi I get that exact same feeling too .

Then your intuition is telling you that you mean nothing to him, except for someone to chat with when he has no one else. I’d listen to your inner wisdom. @UnderstandMe

@Saintweezer Yea i get feels for that

@Saintweezer He wants to cheat with the OP.

Makes sense@tallpowerhouseblonde

@DunningKrugerNope

@UnderstandMe Girlfriend, then?

@DunningKruger high chances

@eMortal I think this guy does the same.

@Fungirlmmm Since he is deleting our chats i get a feeling he is playing around not exactly cheating but he is not leaving any evidences for me to get hold of him

@UnderstandMe Oh is he deleting all chats?

@Fungirlmmm every communication we had for the past month is completely wiped out from both the ends .

@MrAboo Yeh i got to know that eventually

@SatyrService thats not true because he is the one that initiates the chat every time

@UnderstandMe in any case, you are being toyed with at best

@REMsleep Yes he is too smart

@TheLordOfHell He is seeing someone for sure

@SW-User As carissimi said ,Its somewhat insulting to me if a person does that.