What does it mean when a guy you’re texting is constantly deleting your chats ?

@DarkSideoftheMoon He told he is seeing someone an i get a feeling of being double played.But how do I come out from this situation without being too obvious because he is the one that initiates the chat always ?

@UnderstandMe i think if he says hes seeing someone id leave him alone and tell him im not comfortable talking to someone who is in a relationship and is deleting chats. Or just ask him why hes deleting the chat? If your not talking about being together or anything romantic

@UnderstandMe What's wrong with being obvious?

It's hard for me to tell just what kind of chats the two of you are having, but if you want to keep it as "chat between friends" only, you can tell him that. There is nothing wrong with saying you are uncomfortable with more than that because he is seeing someone. And you can say that since he himself feels a need to delete your conversations, you do not want to be part of anything "sneaky".

@UnderstandMe You don't owe any explanation to someone, if he's seeing someone then it's a waste of your time. If you come from the mindset that you "owe" him in any such manner, he'll just keep stringing you along. You can go cold if you want to, you don't need anyone's permission. It will just make it harder if you try to sit here thinking of a solution that doesn't exist because there's no relationship there to begin with, only the idea of one.

Sorry not meaning rudeness or anything, I'm just being real with you.

@UnderstandMe As far as I'm concerned, there's two ways you can think about this. He's wasting your time because he's someone else so can cut him off, you don't owe him anything or you can accept he is seeing someone but accept the relationship for what it is, casual. If you accept this way of life, then you have to accept that your messages are always going to disappear because he's seeing someone.

@SatanBurger
truely appreciate your words .
Yes as you said ,going cold is the only way out .

People who use others tend to initiate contact. Maybe he feels lonely or his significant other isn’t around, so he will chat with you because you are available. He doesn’t have to think you are special just to chat with you. You are just available. @UnderstandMe

@Carissimi You’re telling me the truth I believe.I did make myself available to him to play around with .Now i’m kind of stuck .

@UnderstandMe You have a right to want something different regardless of your decision, just wanted to say that 🤗

You are only stuck if you choose to be stuck. Why can’t you unstick yourself? @UnderstandMe

@Carissimi I will now take a drastic step .Thanks for clearing that out for me