WHAT DO U THINK GUYS?
my bf didn't reply at me for like 4hrs only to know that he only played games, should i be mad or just respect him,because he never said anything i thought something must've happen to him or i'm just over reacting?
22-25
SW-User
I think he wanted some alone time. He obviously saw your messages or notifications because people around your age always have their phone on them but he decided that he wanted to dedicate his time to something else. And that’s fine , you should do the same too! And never forget; always give men the same treatment they give you, if they complain , they’re not the one for you💅.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I think it's sounding a bit dependent atm. He's probably just busy. Try to have lots of things you enjoy in your own time so you don't feel like you have to have them around 24/7, or stress about not talking for a few hours.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
Idk how your relationship is with him aside from this one instance
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deadgerbil · 26-30, M
@user892231132 well he's failing to communicate. Are you dating a man child or a grown adult? Where's his maturity or did you settle for a goofball?
user892231132 · 22-25
@deadgerbil well at first hes mature,sometimes,we plan on becoming a psycologist together but hes failing to communicate w me
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
@user892231132 I play games too and it's definitely not hard to reply to someone during that. So hopefully he prioritizes communication bc all it takes is 10 seconds to send a text
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
I think you’re going to need to decide if you can handle not always being a priority for him. I think many people would be ok with that but can you?
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
I'd say that you're overreacting and he failed to communicate. Next time, tell him to contact you before and after playing his game.
user892231132 · 22-25
@Xalvadora well i always tell him he just sometimes never listen to me or everytime it happens hes just gonna say he forgot abt it
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
@user892231132 If he's doing that, then he has no maturity and responsibility for a relationship. Maybe if you left him or kicked him out, let alone breaking up with him, maybe he'll change himself for the better.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
You're reacting as if he ignored you for 4 years... 😂
Of course you should respect that he has a life and hobbies and they will take up several hours of his day.
Of course you should respect that he has a life and hobbies and they will take up several hours of his day.
bugeye · 26-30, F
well to be fair sometimes i sit down to play a game for like an hour and before i know it several have passed.
spjennifer · 61-69, T
Not every single text needs to be replied to immediately, way overreacting 🥴
user892231132 · 22-25
@Adamski24 what's the point of me being hes gf if hes not going to rant at me
user892231132 · 22-25
am i just an option?
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
@user892231132 sorry that was insensitive of me to comment with that without knowing the situation to give you
Sensible answer to your question.
Sensible answer to your question.
dale74 · M
Your over reacting, unless your trying to run him off men cant stand drama.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Playing with head phones it can be easy to miss a text alert.
My general rule of thumb is: If it's not important send a text and I'll respond when able. Again, if headphones are on for work or games is easy to miss a single text alert.
If you need an immediate response, make a call. I know actually using a cell phone as a phone is taboo these days, but if something is urgent or you are worried about my health, it's much harder to miss a call than a text.
My general rule of thumb is: If it's not important send a text and I'll respond when able. Again, if headphones are on for work or games is easy to miss a single text alert.
If you need an immediate response, make a call. I know actually using a cell phone as a phone is taboo these days, but if something is urgent or you are worried about my health, it's much harder to miss a call than a text.
Kick him out.
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