my bf didn't reply at me for like 4hrs only to know that he only played games, should i be mad or just respect him,because he never said anything i thought something must've happen to him or i'm just over reacting?
I think he wanted some alone time. He obviously saw your messages or notifications because people around your age always have their phone on them but he decided that he wanted to dedicate his time to something else. And that’s fine , you should do the same too! And never forget; always give men the same treatment they give you, if they complain , they’re not the one for you💅.
I think it's sounding a bit dependent atm. He's probably just busy. Try to have lots of things you enjoy in your own time so you don't feel like you have to have them around 24/7, or stress about not talking for a few hours.
@user892231132 I play games too and it's definitely not hard to reply to someone during that. So hopefully he prioritizes communication bc all it takes is 10 seconds to send a text
@user892231132 If he's doing that, then he has no maturity and responsibility for a relationship. Maybe if you left him or kicked him out, let alone breaking up with him, maybe he'll change himself for the better.
Playing with head phones it can be easy to miss a text alert.
My general rule of thumb is: If it's not important send a text and I'll respond when able. Again, if headphones are on for work or games is easy to miss a single text alert.
If you need an immediate response, make a call. I know actually using a cell phone as a phone is taboo these days, but if something is urgent or you are worried about my health, it's much harder to miss a call than a text.