Some people on here are unhinged. What’s a red flag immediately,in your experience.

When they’re a man

I’ve gotten to the point where I consider any support of MAGA as a red flag, full stop.

When they talk about being behind bars. 🥺

Any kind of violent tendencies or domination of women.

Stealing the memes I upload and use - especially the ones that support my owl persona. Years of work went into building and maintaining that persona.

Having an account here to begin with

-Constant negativity.
"Everyone is fake but me" types.
They usually have zero clue what anyone else has been through and their bs cynical view is through THEIR cracked lens alone.

I understand finding overly positive things odd, bc nobody can be happy 25/8 but if people being happy in general or at peace in their lives disturbs you? You ARE the fucking problem. They could have crawled through hell to get to that "happy."

-Racism and any justification of it.

-Askholes

- Political schadenfreude and "my personality is politics now"

- If you lack of self control, regardless of gender. It doesn't matter what someone shows of their body, what's on their profile picture, the fact that it's the fucking Internet or any of those other weird qualifiers people keep trying to put in place for treating other human beings terribly. We all KNOW how to speak to others, period. Stop acting shocked bc people block you.

- Cliques. I avoid them. Doesn't make them "bad" I just want no parts. Hive mind has never been my thing.

- Liars.

- there's other shit but I've taken up enough space and it's not that deep 🤷🏾 it's just my personal opinion and certainly no bearing on what others do or don't like or accept, nor should it be. ⭐

Overly nice ..to the point it comes off contrived and phoney....

I'm a red flag

It's not a nicely organized box by any means but I've definitely noticed how you have ones that think they're the worst thing ever but they're just struggling and really aren't awful people and then you have others that kinda mix and blend in with the agreeable users which masks their odd erruptions as or when they do occur and it's often justified and abusive. Also self awareness really doesn't mean anything if the behaviour is consistent. Announcing a negative trait and doing nothing to repair the damage it might cause is a cop out. We're all gonna fall flat sometimes. Take accountability at the very least.

They message you" can I ask you a personal question " my answer is always "no"

I think everyone is unhinged. A red flag for me? It’s a personal one. But I just steer clear of which crazies I can tell don’t like my crazy.

They get triggered when you don't respond when they think you should have done.

It’s not limited to or uniquely here. SW is a cross-section of society.

My red flags are:

Anybody who responds to a post about fear or grief or struggle or sorrow flippantly or cruelly.

Anybody who advocates hurting the vulnerable, whether the harmed are children or animals or the elderly or those of different faiths or ethnicity or location.

Anybody who settles on one specific identity to blame for their own failures.

Anybody who is angry every single time they appear.

Toxic weaponised man-hating feminism and chronic narcissism are the two biggest ones. IRL the biggest one is smoking, but unless my computer or other device 'lets the smoke out' during use smoking doesn't factor into my life normally.

Meanness to those struggling, incurable cynics who think nothing is authentic therefore it's always a cause for making fun.

Someone who's ALWAYS, nice and understanding. I'm just waiting for the moment they lose their shit and flip out. Although they usually do it in a very passive aggressive manner.

there's a short list of types i insta block 😬

Accounts that don’t interact at all but ate in my inbox it feels like they’re trying to control my time.

Peen pics, unless I agree to see.

Naked old guys, excessive sex stuff and American politics.

Its like some people only log in when they are horny or feel like a debate/argument.

MAGA, bigotry, attacking other members

Too nice. Too positive or pretentious. Also when commentary or posts sound canned and too scripted.

When I meet someone and they’re slagging other people off within the first 10 minutes of me meeting them.

They post about me repeatedly without talking to me.

Man

Red flag is having an sw account