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This happens to all, all the time. That's where our relationship is texted. Specially if that showing interest has far more to offer than kir current partner.

As far a fling. Well, that's a choice to make at the moment of heat 😅

anoderod55 · 70-79, M
I loved it 🦖
Ferric67 · M
@MsSwan hello me swan
@Ferric67 Hi! 👋
iwishuwerehere · 61-69, M
I love it !
benfaltiger004 · 51-55, M
I have always enjoyed it .. and my wife knows that too.
Scousspeter · 41-45, M
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Attention is always welcome.
Startide · F
I think it's flattering but I don't care a whole lot. I only like my husband that way. (=
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Depends on how cute her butt is.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
I hate it and walk away from it. I only have eyes for one man.
teenrob · M
I like it! On here, even better as I am "slightly" more free... 😇
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
I wonder when the sales pitch truly kicks in. Honestly tend to wonder that when it's the partner too.
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@SpectralMourning Oh not good 😔
mrh1972 · MVIP
Never had a partner, but my go to is nearly always what do they want
antonioio · 70-79, M
If your partner is ok with it, it's fine
To be fair
If your partner was receiving attention from another woman
How would you feel
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@antonioio There’s an element of mild jealousy but also “excitement” on both sides.
antonioio · 70-79, M
@AnnaBanana00 what the eye don't see the heart don't feel
A small bit of pain at the start could be a lot better if its left build up
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
It's a nice ego boost.
I change partners ASAP
There must be something wrong with her LOL
Wireman · 31-35, M
Sometimes it's pure friendship. But it helped to find put, it could be a texting fling or a nog danger.
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
If you're in a serious relationship, this would be something to avoid
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@th3r0n Attention comes wether we like it or not
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
As long as it’s not obsessive I don’t mind
Zonuss · 46-50, M
It depends on how much attention the other party is giving.
Ferric67 · M
It depends on if I want their attention
Some is welcomed some is not
It depends from whom, and why
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Well when that used to happen it was just something nice that lifted me a little, it's good to know someone else finds you attractive too 😊
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@PatientlyWaiting25 I have had a lot of self confidence issues in the past so I always enjoy a bit of attention.
GoFish ·
I don't receive it anymore i reject it 😒
I usually take them into the bedroom the next time I am with my partner. Pretend it is them. My partner wonders why I am sudden so virile again.
I can't see the harm in it. Just a way to spice up a relationship.
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@PoohSmasher Honestly, same.
Neoerectus · M
It can be quite flattering and tempting, but filled with landmines.
Ontheroad · M
@Neoerectus yes, this is so true... landmines that destroy not just the self, but others.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Assuming you are talking about attention that feels like it is beyond innocent banter....

I am very good at playing dumb. I just act as if it all is going over my head. If she makes a flirtatious remark, I answer in a way that "misinterprets" her intent in an innocent way.

I have encountered a few posts online by women who complain that some men don't even know when they are being flirted with. I have to wonder when I see those posts. If those men are like me, they know very well what is going on, and this is their way of rebuffing the flirter.
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@DrWatson Interesting, I think it’s fairly obvious when women are flirting, so good self control for you and those men!
Bleak · 36-40, F
I feel attention from others is just something that happens naturally. I don’t entertain it beyond basic social interaction. If someone appreciates my qualities, it does feel good—like a little ‘podium moment’—but it doesn’t go beyond that for me. I don’t let it build any emotional meaning. I acknowledge it, take it as a kind gesture and move on because my focus stays on my marriage.
Nothing.
I enjoy it, knowing all it is and will ever be is simple fun. I don't take it to heart and I don't give it much mind.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
You can have your own “line in the sand” and still be nice. Attention is bound to happen irl. It’s not a big deal. I just make sure that my actions wouldn’t make my wife feel hurt.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
That doesn't really happen so I have nothing to make of it

 
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