Idk what I’m doing with my life

@User123455 Most people won’t see you as a loser but might just think you’re disinterested in it or asexual or that there is only one person for you and you’re not interested in other people.

@User123455 Please do not call yourself that, the economy has made it tougher for your generation.

@Heartlander I’m a loser because I never had a bf, still living with parents, still a virgin & don’t have any friends

@User123455

to acquire friends, a good place to start is to be at places where others are likewise looking for friends.

@Turtlepower I don’t work. I have maybe one friend left, and I don’t do anything. The only goals I can think of are taking up boxing, or singing lessons… I’m out

@Ferise1 ok fair enough. It helps to start at the goal you want. Start by trying to make it achievable. For instance, by the end of 2025 I want to make two new friends. Great, you set a goal and created a time boundary on it. Next, ok well whatever I'm doing now isn't helping me create/make new friendships so I need to do something different. So maybe this is where you pick out a hobby like boxing and look into a local gym that offers lessons. Go to said gym and see if you can talk to the person who offers the lessons and pursue said lessons and then introduce yourself to others at the gym in the process and pick their brains and then see if you have common interests in the process.

So tldr version basically make a SMART goal (Google it). I find it helpful to work backwards from what I want to figure out how to get there so that I'm making incremental progress.

Hope that was even remotely helpful.

@Turtlepower yeah I guess, but making friends in Switzerland is an unrealistic goal. Everyone is antipathic. Maybe I should take out boxing but I don’t think I have the energy.

@YoMomma yea but this year I’m turning 31

@User123455 still young .. i think you can enter the military till you're 32.. not that’d you'd want to especially now but just saying

@Ilena what do u mean

@User123455 Two not knowing what they are doing with their lives. Me and you.

@SinlessOnslaught idk what do you think

@User123455 I think culturally we put too much emphasis on material things and we're told if we just make lots of money and have no life then we're miserable and doing it right.

Which is kind of true because that's what we do. Our only value as human beings is the materials we can provide, or in women's case, also how good you look.

We have to find small moments to keep us happy, in our own ways.

@Ferise1 sometimes