If you could remove one emotion from your repertoire, which one would it be?

@DearAmbellina2113 good choice!

@Queendragonfly a powerful one. Killers thrive on this secret agenda brewing

@atlantic59 which requirements?

@Queendragonfly most likely! i'm just jealous of loving people, i want it too!

@MoonlightLullaby indeed! too much of any emotions is terrible!

@popmol I have long had a tendency toward jealousy in relationships and it has been very painful for me and not good for people who have loved me.

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@SW-User understandable! did you fix it?

@SW-User are you a fearful person?

@popmol Apparently I have a few hidden/subconscious fears.

@SW-User which ones?

@popmol Doesn't serve me well.

@Iwillwait but necessary. How do you stop people doing bad things if you cannot get angry about it?

@aboveaverageaveragejoe Well, if look to Dog training per se, you never need to raise your voice to command or direct, the rasing of voice should be literally reserved for "Emergency Only," situations to have the greatest effect. I know lots of oeners who are constantly pist off at their animal for doing or exhibiting an unwanted behaviour, thus, every command is in a firm of yelling causing the animal to now be desensitized to the elevated soeach levels and tone.

People are the same way, if you're always angry, it loses all affectiveness as to communicate. The emotion for myself has been a reflex so readily available that it only does harm in most cases and creates more strife.

I would much rather not have it in my life

@Strongtea well if you do these easy steps you'll learn to be less jealous.

1: no they aren't perfect. most people have a bunch of problems. just not the same as you necessarily!
in case of friends:
2. turn it around, don't be unhappy because you aren't as happy as them, be happy for them. you want to see your friends happy, no?
in case of ex girlfriends: did you truly love them or were they a fling?
2. if they were a fling forget them, they aren't worth your time.
3. if they were someone you truly love, be happy like with friends for their happiness.

if these don't work depending on how you think about it you might have some narcissism.
most likely a healthy amount like most people, because we put ourselves first but if you think like these exes should have been mine and happy with me. i'd definitely revisit that and think about it.

@popmol thanks for that, that’s super interesting!

@Strongtea also these are "simple steps" in a way like they are simple solutions with not much difference to regular life.
but not simple as in you might need to change your whole look on life and the people around you and yourself.

so if they don't work, its not because you didn't try hard enough but they are just hard to accomplish.

@Raaii all emotion? you'll be a robot!

@SW-User i understand :(

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout agg?

@popmol aggravation

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout less grr could be very useful!

@mindstruggle have you such issues with anxiety?

@popmol
Very! 😔

@mindstruggle ooh no i'm sorry to hear ;( wish i could help! it suck to be stuck with it!

@LoneVoice had heartbreak?

@LoneVoice uh oh...I think someone needs to talk...

@SW-User nice choice! no more confusion ray in pokemon!

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart smart i might choose the same as it generates most of my anger.

@Eyeinthesky you want rid of your disappoint function?

@Convivial bah! screw development! be sedentary, stay the same!

@popmol an, no thanks

@Convivial haha

@sodaa do you care to much?

@Bluebirdsonmyshoulder you'll be unstoppable!

@atlantic59 angry birds!

@DDonde FEAR EVERYTHING!

@ExtremeNext that bad? i find myself exhausted after being horny so i sleep well after it!
it sounds like you have to deal with a terrible emotion ;(

@popmol it's not easy

@ExtremeNext i did find, removing the horniness should not be done constantly then it will feel even worse, it should be spread out!

@calicuz there can only be one! so i'll be sillymoji!

@popmol

@calicuz indeed!

@tenente i hope she wasn't truly alone and if she was in a hospital her final minutes were spent in someones company at least a nurse or something!

@popmol 🙏