No....you weren't being too nice. You had a good time. He was tired but didn't cancel on you. He went with you and you enjoyed it. He could have said yes, when you suggested going another time. He was also being nice.

Depends on the reason he got no sleep the night before. If he was called in unexpectedly to work then he's just a loyal worker and that's good; if he was partying despite knowing he had to be in good shape for your date then that's not so good. At least he apologised. :-)

Yes, as a Feminist you're supposed to treat men like shit. Shame on you.

In what way do you believe you were too nice?...you did the decent thing by offering him to postpone the date I don't see that as being too nice just respectful.

I think you were fine? I mean... he did his best to make right on missing the pickup time. Ideally he wouldn't have missed it to begin with but there's not too much else you can ask for there.

Too nice? For not giving him shit because he was tired? That is the decent thing to do...you think too much dear. Glad you had fun!

THAT is a huge red flag!!! How many people do that when it is the second date? 13th maybe..not the second. It was inconsiderate, irresponsible and disrespectful. I personally would not have gone anywhere with him. We teach people how to treat us...you taught him something about yourself he can use

Give him a chance I think. When I was about 19 I did an even worse thing. I had been awake for many hours, long story, and met up with my girlfriend.

We ended up on my bed doing our thing with me on my back and her on top. The next thing I know I wake up and she looks at me with a really bleak face and tells me that I fell asleep during sex.

Lol. True story. Give him a break. Shit happens. :-)

No he honest could of overslept plus he did take you out. I think you did the right thing

no its understandable i'm glad you weren't too stiff to turn him down ^_^