Was I too nice?

The guy and I were about to have our second date. The night before he only had an hour of sleep. Anyways, he was supposed to pick me up at 4, he didn't show up nor texted me, so I decided to call and ask what's up. He says sorry he was asleep and I said, it's okay we can go another time. He said, no we are going today (yesterday). We ended up going and I mean, it was a great night, I had so much fun. But, was I too nice? He promised it wouldn't happen again.

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fazer1k · 56-60, M

Depends on the reason he got no sleep the night before. If he was called in unexpectedly to work then he's just a loyal worker and that's good; if he was partying despite knowing he had to be in good shape for your date then that's not so good. At least he apologised. :-)

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@fazer1k: He was at his friend's birthday party, then we both had this prayer hour with our church group at 5 in the morning. He works everyday except sundays, not this past saturday. You judge.

fazer1k · 56-60, M

@hopeespe: I would be inclined to forgive him that as it sounds like an error of judgment on his part. Expect him to live up to his promise not to do it again though!

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@fazer1k: Yes, I won't accept another error of his like that.