I'm i really that unattractive? 🤔

IDK, I don't go around approaching women irl because I don't want to make them uncomfortable. Doesn't mean you're not attractive.

I have often wondered the same about myself, but then someone told me I have this "completely unavailable/don't approach me" vibe. It's not something I do intentionally, I think it's because I'm extremely shy.

Being attractive will get you the first date... But only personality and character will keep them coming back for more ;)

Attractiveness comes in all forms. It’s not all physical. Not all mental. You’d be surprised what attraction exists between two people. Keep that chin up and stay positive. Most people love positivity no matter what

I don't know your situation, but I do know that approaching any woman is a minefield these days. Being weird and sarcastic probably didn't help, because it'll be interpreted as being non reciprocal in a casual social setting. Generally the only guys that will keep chasing a woman who is non reciprocal are guys who aren't looking for a healthy relationship

The art of the approach is slowly being lost to oblivion

You can be attractive and still have a don't approach me vibe. You can also appear shy and introverted which doesn't draw people to you in the same way as outgoing confidence does.

It’s okay I’m told I’m attractive but nobody approaches me either….but then again I don’t want people to so I think I give off that energy…but at the same time why does nobody have the balls to do it anyway

People are losing touch with face to face communication
By default making them insecure about approach people

Approaching and hitting on people in public feels like it's sorta frowned upon nowadays. At least it does from my experiences.

You are still in the traditional age of what meets the eye. Today's world is all about online. How you meet and converse!. SW is a great place where you can talk to so many and many come to talk to you. But most make the mistake of thinking online as unreal and irl as real.

No one tries to approach you or flirt with you, because you don't approach or flirt with anyone.

It's an equal world today. Go for what you want and not wait for you to be chosen.

You said yourself you don't meet or talk to people so that's likely the issue. You're not receptive.

You may be very attractive, but some women project a sort of wall and message that says do not enter.

I am sarcastic as well and noticed that people tends to NOT understand it…

I'm sure you're very attractive. Everyone goes through a little loneliness at times.

So idk what your life is like but I can pm you some ideas. This is literally my job.

Some people are just weird and don't like interacting as well. Maybe it's just that lol

If all you're doing is sitting and waiting you might wait forever !

You need to get out into the real world.

You'll find like minded people doing the same things you enjoy doing.

Widen your social circle.
Join a club or a gym or a theatre group.
Try your local library for local societies or events that might interest you.
That way you already have common ground

Sending hugs. I tried to approach you in the messages FYI :)

I usually dont approach women that much

That's something I totally understand
My brother and I could easily be mistaken for each other
He had loads of girl friends and I had very few
It's all about personality and smile

Try going on offense. A few of us actually fall in love with a woman who talks first. You know what the best defense is, more offense.

This sounds so familiar

Maybe respond to your emails