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I think my boyfriend is losing interest. PLEASE HELP! URGENT 😭

We’ve been dating for two weeks now and we’re so happy but lately this week he stopped texting me first so I texted him but he hasn’t texted back since Tuesday. So I texted him Tuesday, “Hey you how you doing? 😍😍”
He didn’t text me back that morning. So I waited until school. So I saw him and I hugged and kissed him but he backed up and nodded. He didn’t do that on Monday. What in good heavens? He just ignored me the whole day. I tried to talk to him but he ignored me. That hurts. I thought he was maybe having a bad day. I don’t know.
We only on campus Mondays and Tuesday’s the rest is online. We’re in high school. He didn’t text me back at all yesterday. I tried to call him. Today I texted him. Nothing.
What should I do?! I hope it isn’t another girl!
LaylaTheTallGirl
22-25, F
102 replies 138 views Nov 5, 2020
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CraftyMarieArts · F
Sorry to break it to you but it sounds like it's over. I suggest you move on before you get hurt. If he actually cared, he would contact you.
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CraftyMarieArts · F
@LaylaTheTallGirl I'm just telling you from my experience. Just walk away.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@CraftyMarieArts But I wanna keep trying! This is my first boyfriend and we’ve dated for two weeks. He told me all that I’m suffocating him and try to control him and that’s why he was ignoring me for the past three days. I called and text him but he hasn’t messaged me back.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@CraftyMarieArts https://similarworlds.com/20-Seeking-Advice/3628559-My-guy-best-friend-told-me-my-boyfriend-is?com_id=43114225&ncom_id=43114390&sort=1
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Many boys may find the sort of behavior you're displaying to be rather desperate and needy, and rather than dealing with you as a person and telling you what's on his mind, ghosting you is easier. It's immature and hurtful, but many people will take the easy way out of a situation.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User Humph! 😤😤
They’re supposed to be on my side.
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SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl I know it doesn't feel like it, but wouldn't you rather know the truth?
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User Well yeah but they don’t know if that’s a girlfriend. It might be his cousin or sister but my best friend said it’s neither and she told me yesterday also that she saw him with another girl.
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DMDawson · 70-79, F
He's a Biden supporter. 😂
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Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@DMDawson you mean he’s dating a mail-order bride? Or someone dead? 🤣🤣
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TexChik · F
He isnt man enough to just tell you and hoped his rude actions would relay the message instead. He is no longer interested in you. Time to move on from him.
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TexChik · F
@LaylaTheTallGirl looks really suspicious .. rather than cheating , he’s moved on
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@TexChik my best friends even think he’s cheating and I’m ignoring the signs. I’m telling you he’s not cheating.
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TexChik · F
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
You need to move on and enjoy yourself. If he is truly interested, he will contact you in the future.
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PhoenixPhail · M
@SweetMae 👍
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CookieCrumbs · F
He is no longer interested in you.
That’s his choice. Accept it and move on.
It’s not necessarily your fault.
People want/need different things at diff times.

Don’t beg for his attention. Don’t plead him to stay with you.

Tell yourself: “NEXT...”
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@CookieCrumbs NO!!!!!! It’s my first relationship 😭😭😭😭😭
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CookieCrumbs · F
@LaylaTheTallGirl It hurts to accept what you already know. But surely this will not be the last.... 🤗 Life is long...there are others who deserve you more.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@CookieCrumbs https://similarworlds.com/20-Seeking-Advice/3628559-My-guy-best-friend-told-me-my-boyfriend-is?com_id=43114225&ncom_id=43114390&sort=1
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smiler2012 · 61-69
yes lets hope that is not the case it is cruel if he is stringing you along why cannot he be honest with you on the other hand there maybe a perfect simple answer why he has not answered maybe he has been ill or busy all you can do is wait i am sad to say the ball is in his court @sweetiepielay
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@smiler2012 Uh ya I said I’ve been calling him. I might as well have to bug him. I’m done being nice.
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smiler2012 · 61-69
@LaylaTheTallGirl much as this hurts i think it may be time to give this one up and call it a day then you have some pride and you do not let him call the tune obviously it is a case as i suggested he is busy or he is messing you around your call i am afraid
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@smiler2012 I hope busy is the answer! I haven’t called since this morning.
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LeopoldBloom · M
He’s not your boyfriend after just two weeks. He could have been having fun with you while his actual girlfriend was on vacation.
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ExperienceDLT · M
@LeopoldBloom very true
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@LeopoldBloom Shows how much you know. He asked me to be his girlfriend!
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SW-User
Guys at that age aren't really looking for long term relationships personally I think you would be better off ending this relationship out of respect for yourself don't let him keep you in the back burner.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User Great I was happy and now I’m hurt. Don’t I deserve happiness? 😭
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SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl You do deserve happiness but your happiness isn't with him. But it would be with the right guy that would respect you and treat you well you still have plenty of time to find love.
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SW-User
You may have to physically go over to his house and see if you can talk to him face to face..don't rely on information from other people. Talk to him face to face.
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SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl That just means you can't talk to him, which has to be really stressful. 😔
Maybe tomorrow?
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User https://similarworlds.com/20-Seeking-Advice/3628559-My-guy-best-friend-told-me-my-boyfriend-is?com_id=43114225&ncom_id=43114390&sort=1
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SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl I'm sorry. 😔
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Qwerty14
High school, 2 weeks, didn't wanna hug/kiss you... That sounds like it's over. Dump him before he dumps you. If he actually cares he'll want you back. Either way, you save face on the playground
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Qwerty14
@LaylaTheTallGirl Yeah they're all correct. You should dump him. That's your best scenario. Either it'll look like it was your call and you save face at school or he'll realise he's losing you and his true feelings will finally surface. Trust me, breaking it off is the best case scenario
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Qwerty14 Wow my first relationship and now I’m going to be depressed again. I’ll NEVER BE HAPPY
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ExperienceDLT · M
@LaylaTheTallGirl you should listen to what everyone is telling you
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QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
🥺🤗🤗🤗 hope will sort out sweetheart 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Justiceforall · M
Have you been talking about him, some people don't appreciate that. Or perhaps it's that your texting him way too much and he's not got any time for himself. If it is another girl it's better to find out sooner than later.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Justiceforall Well were in love I only texted him a lot because recently he hasn’t been responding
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Justiceforall · M
@LaylaTheTallGirl people fall out of love as easy as the fall in love. It sounds stupid but it's true,
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Travelbug · 56-60, F
At your age people date a lot and meet new people. I don't think he's the one. No point in being with someone who does not want to be with you.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Travelbug TRUE BUT you don’t know him like I do’
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Travelbug · 56-60, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl I know but the signs are there. You can't make someone love you.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Travelbug Oh I can’t? Can’t I!
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teechme · 18-21, F
Just don't do something you don't really want to just to get his attention. Its not worth it
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@teechme But he’s my boyfriend
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teechme · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl What? What would you do to try and keep him and how will you feel later if he still doesn't stay with you?
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Om2014 · 36-40, M
If its not first time for him then it wont be his last. People dont wanna committ because they wanna keep "exploring". thats so common these days. But the serious person gets hurt bad. So thats why you dont choose a person who doesnt have anyself control, mind can be monkey, hopping from emotions to emotions and changing relationships.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Om2014 It’s the first time.
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Om2014 · 36-40, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl then maybe just talk to him straight.
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dale74 · M
If you already slept with him he has moved on he was just using you. Sorry I am honest to a fault
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@dale74 We never slept together
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teechme · 18-21, F
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dale74 · M
@LaylaTheTallGirl then I am not sure but hope you find a great guy.
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Rhodesianman · 61-69, M
Sounds like he has met someone else . Definitly lost interest in you sorry.
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Rhodesianman No I haven’t seen him with another girl.
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ExperienceDLT · M
He is ignoring you so he can pay more attention to the one he is cheating on you with
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@ExperienceDLT https://similarworlds.com/5331208-I-Have-Random-Thoughts/3627050-My-boyfriend-told-something-very-hurtful
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ExperienceDLT · M
@LaylaTheTallGirl see the part where he said "I dont see us dating any further" that should tell you how he really feels about you you need to move on
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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@ExperienceDLT https://similarworlds.com/20-Seeking-Advice/3628559-My-guy-best-friend-told-me-my-boyfriend-is?com_id=43114225&ncom_id=43114390&sort=1
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MellyMel22 · F
You should run, if he lost interest that soon- he’s not worthy your time.
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HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
Easy to fix
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Temporallube · M
Get a new one
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dale74 · M
At least he's cheating with another girl instead of a guy
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SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Get a hobby
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SW-User
@SkeetSkeet it's her first one. Losing them really hurts
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Iwillwait · M
Maybe brush your teeth first.
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MethDozer · M
Did you try offering anal?
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