I think my boyfriend is losing interest. PLEASE HELP! URGENT 😭

We’ve been dating for two weeks now and we’re so happy but lately this week he stopped texting me first so I texted him but he hasn’t texted back since Tuesday. So I texted him Tuesday, “Hey you how you doing? 😍😍”
He didn’t text me back that morning. So I waited until school. So I saw him and I hugged and kissed him but he backed up and nodded. He didn’t do that on Monday. What in good heavens? He just ignored me the whole day. I tried to talk to him but he ignored me. That hurts. I thought he was maybe having a bad day. I don’t know.
We only on campus Mondays and Tuesday’s the rest is online. We’re in high school. He didn’t text me back at all yesterday. I tried to call him. Today I texted him. Nothing.
What should I do?! I hope it isn’t another girl!

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DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Many boys may find the sort of behavior you're displaying to be rather desperate and needy, and rather than dealing with you as a person and telling you what's on his mind, ghosting you is easier. It's immature and hurtful, but many people will take the easy way out of a situation.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@DunningKruger So I’m passive?

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl No. Just based on what you've written here, it sounds like you're being actively, even aggressively, desperate and needy. Most guys do not find these to be attractive characteristics in a girl.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@DunningKruger I’m not desperate! Even my best friends say I am and I need to get it together.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Listen to your friends. They love you.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@DunningKruger I love them too but sometimes they can do so blunt.

SW-User

@LaylaTheTallGirl sometimes people have to be, when they feel like you're not listening. I know it hurts, but they don't want to see you get hurt more than you already are.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@SW-User Humph! 😤😤
They’re supposed to be on my side.

SW-User

@LaylaTheTallGirl I know it doesn't feel like it, but wouldn't you rather know the truth?

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@SW-User Well yeah but they don’t know if that’s a girlfriend. It might be his cousin or sister but my best friend said it’s neither and she told me yesterday also that she saw him with another girl.