Ladies, your having an awseome time with your lover, great foreplay, passionate kissing, you are so ready for him, and then he cant get it up or in.

I’ve had that happen. We were both high on 🍄 at the time and I guess it made it hard for him to get it up but he was super into going down on me, so he pretty much just did that for two hours straight. I lost track of how many times I came that night, so no complaints really.

He would satisfy me in another way. It'd just be something to work through together if it was reoccurring.
There's so many other ways to share intimacy with someone you love.

That hasn’t happened yet. My man is pretty potent because he stays physically healthy and works out regularly, lol. But if it ever did, I would never get upset with him, ever. He also suffers from bad mental health to where I’ve had to cancel plans we’ve had because he was having a bad day. I didn’t get mad at him for that and I wouldn’t get mad it him for not getting it/keeping it up. In the grand scheme of things, sex isn’t even all that important in the grand scheme of things.

It happens .. It's no big deal.. i just tell her .. hey, That's not happening right now but ...
No reason to get frustrated . Just make sure you do give it to her. Eventually she's going to stop being so understanding. Just saying.

I had this problem with an ex. It led to the demise of our relationship because it made me feel so ugly even though I knew it wasn't personal.

It’s only happened to me once but we were both really drunk 😅

I was disappointed of course but I wasn’t mad at him.

Next morning things happened and There weren’t any issues 🤤

Sometimes I'm not 'up' for it when the other person is, despite my intent... and they better be understanding, like me, or it's gonna be a problem.

I would say more frustrated then anything else. Can't blame them for something beyond their control.

Don't ask me a follow question, because I have to leave

My wife says it has never happened to her, but she would get mad. They would just figure out something to satisfy both of them.

Getting annoyed about it will likely make the problem worse... and he's probably already embarrassed/upset enough about it as it is...

Might be a better use of time to come up with something he can/wants to do instead.

A lady I am not but I will say this
that is all about lust and not about love
so why should anyone care?

Ladies, YOU'RE having an awesome time with your lover. The word "your" never has been and never will be an abbreviation for "you are". How can it be?

Never happened to me – anyway, I wouldn't be frustrated, and iIwould love to find out what it is that really arouses him.

I let him eat at the Y

Fortunately Not a problem I’ve ever encountered 😉

Little pissed off happened with 2 guys. 1 called me a waste of space, unless he was referring to himself. The other had major issues with porn and dont think he was every fully hard. Maybe once.

Frustrated. Makes you feel like you’re not enough.

ED is caused by lots of things. Drugs to overcome it are not the right solution. Addressing the underlying reasons is.

Why is it that many women have sex toys in the form of fake dicks and similar? Is it because they (like with their dating exploits) always require a 'backup solution' to everything?

He has a tongue

Id just sit on his face. His tongue still works

Either he's going to have to use his tongue or fingers well or the toy drawer is getting plundered