Ladies, your having an awseome time with your lover, great foreplay, passionate kissing, you are so ready for him, and then he cant get it up or in.

What do women do or how do you deal with it?
Does it pisses you off? Makes you angry or frustrated?

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I did have that happen to me once. I did not get angry but I did feel like it was me maybe not turning him on. I did not try again with him. But so many years later I realized it was not me and it was something going on with him. It happens, I would be more understanding next time.

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@Prettypinkflower14 I see. I think lack of knowlege on both sides results in misunderstanding, disappointments and or embarrassment. When the reality is totally opposite. Men tend to keep it and often make it an selfsteem/ego issue, which it doesn't have to be.