Have you ever done that ? To have sex again like it is your first time ?

@0uijaFinger I can understand that, even if not experiential ...

@Degbeme aw ... Hope you can make it happen

@Boeing I`ll not hold my breath, but thank you.

@Sojournersoul well I hope you will find someone

@Barefooter25 how would you do things differently now ?

@Boeing With my potential new girlfriend, we already discussed the topic. If and when the time comes, I will probably feel tranquil and at peace because she's now an important part of my life.

@Barefooter25 sounds like a good approach, best of luck :)

@ekwalizur I tried to understand your writings, I read them few times each message.
Definitely, nowadays I know sex is a spiritual experience.
But what I say, is also somewhat common, despite how not nice. Read a bit about disassociation, you'll understand a bit more

@Boeing when I google it the first hits I get are psychiatry. Am I on the right track?

@ABCDEF7 thank you 🙏🏻 I want to add though, meditation isn't about forgetting Life, is about returning back to it.

@Boeing Sometimes you need to forget something to return back to life. Meditation are of different levels. The process starts with separating your mind from your conscious. That itself solves many problems if done properly. When you practice regularly for long durations, you learn to live like that. You use your mind, and not getting used by your mind & senses. 🙏

@Boeing like a connection? Like having it understood what both like. But also I think there has been great sex that was unexpected and spontaneous.

I always believed sex id mostly mental anyway.

@Jonjdw I think it is happening in many layers of being, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, ..,

@Boeing yes all those things. And like other words meaning the same things . passion. desire. attraction. It can all play a role. Also depends upon what both like. Sometimes maybe you don’t know what you like something to tell it happens.

@NerdyPotato well good luck with your case as well... See there is something for everyone, an issue from a different angle

That second sentence is insightful though. Indeed, it is a practice, and if one is truly present with what is, then everything can seem like they are happening for the first time, because in actuality they do...!

@averageguy That's kindergarten math lol

@SageWanderer what I mean is, it really is rare

@Boeing I have to agree. But in retrospect it was more of a spiritual experience than physical.

@SageWanderer I think these merge, that is how I imagine it

@exexec so happy to hear about that experience of yours :)

@AngelUnforgiven Yes I too agree with that, thank you 🙏🏻

@ninalanyon but you had 3 children in the end so uhmm you must've been doing something right...

@Boeing Yes we had three children, but that was a different we than my first time :-)

Edit: Also the making babies part is the easy bit. Very little skill required.

@Boeing not what i mean though some nerves are gone its a physical medical thing

@Rokan Oh, I am sorry to hear that.
beyond the nerves though, there are a lot more you can feel..

@Boeing yeah maybe