guys, how do you feel about a woman making the first move? Girls, do you make the first move?

Dunno about Mel but I (Karen) have made the first move just once with a guy and it backfired. We've both made first moves with other women though.

My girlfriend made the first move. She's generally not decisive or demanding, so it made me feel really nice knowing she was interested and it took a lot of pressure off of the dating phase

I'm all for it. My wife made the first move when we were 15.

I'm for it. Making the first move as a guy scares me lol

If I'm really interested in someone, yes, I'll definitely try to get their attention.

I prefer it that way. Then I know for sure she's interested and I'm not bothering her.

My current wife did. I’m glad she did. 😊

I don't usually make the first move because I'm oblivious. The few times I have they weren't interested.

I have .

I don't anymore because in any way shape or form that I have ever made a first move in any kind of aspect, it always seemed to be a big mistake

I prefer women to make the first move: it takes the guess work out of it...no wondering if she is actually flirting with me / wants me to make a move or is recreationally flirting / "just having fun"

I almost always have.

I do, if I see someone I really want to know

It’s incredibly awesome!

No issue for me ..

Depends on how much I'm into the woman

Fine by me. I’m not really a “first move” kinda guy.

I've done it a few times

Something I love about queer spaces is that chicks will make the first move.

My wife made the first move. I was good with that.

I’m fine with it but it is very rare.

Hah! Make the firet move!? These days!? So you can end up being accused of 'raping aomeone with your eyes!!!!'.