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Have you ever had unplanned sex with a friend (male or female) just because the situation and the mood was right?

If so can you tell us what happened? Did it affect your long term friendship?
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Yep. Friends for more than a decade. Never really dated or anything; just good friends. Then I needed a replacement on short notice to fill in for a date who bailed on me for an office party. She agreed to fill in. We both got drunk and wound up in bed. It was like our genitals finally caught up with our minds and hearts. Did it affect our friendship? Most definitely. Eloped a month later. Married for 43 years; soulmates forever.
StrictStepmum · 46-50, F
Yes with a female friend in College we were studying and chilling at her place, and a little playful wrestling turned into a hot session of sex

We were still close friends after that
Corporalcolleague · 61-69, M
@StrictStepmum I had my first sex with a former gf whom I never had sex with prior....it was at a mutual friend's home at a party and she pulled me into an unoccupied bedroom and initiated. I was 19
StrictStepmum · 46-50, F
Beccamom · 36-40, F
Yes, any chance I get, which is not to often working 2 jobs and being a mom.
@Beccamom This was very encouraging to read. A taste for adventure when it arises!
StarLily · 51-55, F
No, I need affection beyond friendship for that to happen.
Sevendays · M
Yes, a long time ago and I lost a good friend because of it
SW-User
Yes, this happened to me the summer after high school. She was probably my closest female friend in high school. We never dated or did anything with each other. But there was one night about a month before we went off to college when we were alone together and it just seemed like the thing to do. I didn't plan on it at all, but I also can't say I'd never wondered what it would've been like. I'll admit it did make things a little awkward immediately after, especially since we went to different colleges--but a few months later we met up and hung out again and we've continued to be friends. Nothing else ever happened; I just got invited to her wedding. It's just one of those things--I'll never forget it, but it wasn't meant to go any further.
mainvane · 61-69, M
yes...with female lifeguard in the beach showers...I walked in and our eyes met. We were both in swim suits but we knew it was going to happen right there
AbbySvenz · F
😐 … they wish
HumanEarth · F
Yes, and it was the best sex ever. No one was as kinky as fun or as wild as her. Plus my own wife held the camera and recorded the whole thing on VHS tape (this was back before DVDs)

I'm not going to tell everything, let's just say it involved me wearing women's clothing and bondage

It was a two time thing as she flew back to Germany . She came here to here to USA from Germany to meet my buddy that she meet in a chatroom.

My buddy ditch and did her wrong. She was instantaneously homeless. So me and my wife offered her our spare bedroom. Till she can save up money and move back home to Germany.

Well we all became really close friends over that year and we had a wild parties that led up to the sex.

It all started with 15 people playing drunken truth or dare
exexec · 70-79, C
I haven't, but my wife did in college. It's a long story, and it didn't affect their friendship.
SW-User
there was that one time at scout camp and my scout buddy forgot his sleeping bag
@SW-User 😂😂😂😂 who was in front?
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@Sojournersoul i personally am still sacrosanct back there wut
We met at work and became acquaintances. She needed a plus one for a wedding to shut up the gossip. After that we grew closer. We started flirting and then one evening ended up in her bed. We feigned being a couple briefly and then broke up and didn’t talk for a while. By accident, we became friends again, and she became my BFF!
18 months ago, she died alone suddenly unexpectedly. I was the last person to speak with her. I wish I had been able to hold her. I miss my BFF.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
We were under age at the time so I'm not going into detail.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
No because then they never were just a friend.
likesnatural · 70-79, M
No, but would have liked to a few times.
Morvoren · F
Yes frequently when I was much younger. Rarely was it a good idea but tourist guys and cider are hardly a formula for smart thinking.
meggie · F
Yes with a male friend.years ago. We were both drunk. We never really spoke about it afterwards.
Yeah it was high level pationate. Think it’s the kind of passion that would rekindle if they were near again. Didn’t ruin the friendship. It was like our hidden secret.
Anton · 61-69, M
By myself, sure. With someone else, no. I had to plan everything to the "T"
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Nope. Never gonna happen, either. Friends are friends and I'm not into casual sex.
Yes. We remained friends for a number of years. We had a sexual attraction and sex a few times, but it never was more than feeding our desire.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
yes i did 3-4 times likewise , of course not effected between us
spice1 · M
Yes a long time ago with a good friend of mine.
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
yes high school graduation night.
Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M
Definitely unexpected
Corporalcolleague · 61-69, M
I lost my virginity to a former gf whom i had never, obviously, had sex with but at a summer house party a year later she took me into a spare bedroom and it happened. Very unexpected but greatly appreciated.
Torsten · 36-40, M
yeah both drunk and single. That was enough and nah i am still very good friends with her. It was just sex and didnt mean anything
anythingoes477 · 31-35, M
Unplanned???? Like you were sitting there with a girl having coffee and out of the blue...you never had a clue it was going to happen...your dick just jumped out of your pants and landed in her? No...I have never had that happen.
Greyjedi · M
We had a great time, she almost demanded I fuck her, we had a great time. When we weren’t in the mood we went are separate ways.

 
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