What helped her through the whole situation that was the fact that it didn't matter to me and I saw her still is beautiful if she was before..... So yes it is a common thing with that and you like her I'm sure it's just as beautiful just have a scar of something you live through be proud of it it is a badge of courage and honor

I hope you find a way to give yourself the grace to look upon your body and be proud of it again.
It has been through an unimaginable battle.

I’ve always wondered when people remarry after divorce or find a new partner, why is it called starting over? Are we not starting from a place of more knowledge? A place where we know what we want (or don’t want) a place where we can decide which boundaries need to be set and what you find acceptable and unacceptable?

(And I don’t think any age is too old to find someone who loves and respects you for who you are)

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I have had 18 operations for cancer. 5 was in my face and head. I have scars and lumps missing. My wife accepts me as me. I felt the same as you but things will work out.

there is as the saying goes someone for everyone most genuine people won't be put off by some scars they are merely evidence of the life we have lived and the battles we've endured i am full of scars some minor some quite big ones from ops etc, go find that new start

Spiritual part of life has nothing to do with the physical part. The journey of life has to be lived until Life permits. The remaining time of life has to be invested or spent, as it can never be stored or refrigerated for later. Even if it was possible the question remains what to do then!

Ask yourself whether the image in the mirror is you or the one perceiving the image is you?


The mirror only shows your outlook/ body. So you have convinced yourself that you are the body and you were wanted for your body. So first thing you need to do is to remove all mirrors around you. And then you can know yourself more.

As Bertrand Russell said A new world began 5 minutes ago, you can begin a new chapter any time. You don't anyone's opinion on the matter.

PM me if you need some encouragement and willing to gain a new perspective for remaining life.

You had gone through chemo? that itself says you have faced hardships in life and I am glad you have recovered well thanks to your amazing mental strength.

You are an inspirational person - I would love to hear about you and more about your inspirational journey.

Remember, you have lot to live and enjoy in life!

If i were you I WOULD! If someone loves you unconditionally those scars won't matter. I thank God that you are doing well. and i pray that if you decide to seek love again that you find the love of your life again.

I know women don’t like scars. Men treat them like battle ribbons.
For many men, we don’t see stretch marks or scars.

I am widowed from woman he passed away from COPD December 28th 2018 and she had elements in the left side of her body taken out in her left breast removed and she had a scar that was almost I'd say inch and a half wide from her armpit all the way down and she felt same way

It depends on what you are looking for. Personality turns me on more than anything else no matter how cute or hot the woman's body may be. If someone comes your way and the both of you fall in love with each other, nothing else matters.

Congratulations for surviving breast cancer. And you should be still proud of yourself and your scars! It shows your strength and tenacity.

I am sorry for your loss. There is hope out there for you. Just don't give up.

They will fall in love with YOU! Scars are part of your story, of what you have battled, overcome and stronger because of it. You get to live another day...

Dollars to donuts, if you make an effort to put yourself out there, you're going to find someone looking for a relationship, just as you are, and not a pair of perfect tits. So, it he ticks enough of your boxes, why not start over at 41? The new journey could be as exciting and fulfilling.

If you find someone worth having, your body won’t be the most important thing - it’s all the rest. Don’t let it hold you back.

I think we collect scars; wrinkles and experience as we get older.
Part of what makes us interesting 😃

Hey hi someone will want you !! Sorry to hear your widow too!!

Scars are just a part of your life story. They give your body interest, uniqueness. They don't make you any less beautiful.

My mother also diagnosed with breast cancer

Don’t give up. There’s a lot of life to live.

The scars that matter are on the inside. Those are the ones to work on healing. maybe some self esteem repair?😷

There is no starting over, there is only moving forward. Your body is just a big fleshy box. It's what's inside that has value!

Please don’t give up!

Sometimes it's good to start over.
Good luck. ☺

Scars are only skin deep as long as you have a good heart

Forget about the scars. Rejoice in your life.

You might want to reach out to lovinglife

You are here , honour yourself by living

Best days are in the future

If course they would.

How did your hub die?

Men think scars are attractive