Starting over

I'm single again, a widow. Married twice, divorced once. I just went through breast cancer. I had surgery and a round of chemo, and things are looking good so far. I wonder if it is worth starting over again in my late 40s. I have scars; they say some will never completely go away. I used to be proud of my body. Now I look in the mirror and wonder if anyone would want me.

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Northwest · M

I wonder if it is worth starting over again in my late 40s

Dollars to donuts, if you make an effort to put yourself out there, you're going to find someone looking for a relationship, just as you are, and not a pair of perfect tits. So, it he ticks enough of your boxes, why not start over at 41? The new journey could be as exciting and fulfilling.