Where can i find good men? I can't find any good men when i search. Do good men even exists, 😭

@sahi81 And then there's me. Just enjoying my snacks waiting for someone to notice me.

@Nanori @mindstruggle It's not mythical. They're out there. They just need the right experiences and ways of interpreting them to be a decent person and not see women as objects.

If that is what you two are talking about. Maybe it's something else. But it broke my heart to read this, even if it's just jokes, I feel like it comes from a true belief that you'll never find a man who's there for you in the right kind of way.

@Nanori @mindstruggle

@greensnacks

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@Shybutwilling2bfriends well i think it's my sick sense of humor. Not for everyone 🙂

@SW-User gotcha

@Shybutwilling2bfriends non-egoistic type, loyal and non-violent

@YourMomsSecretCrush i only want good guys, they seem to be hiding ?!?! maybe goodness is taken advantage in this world

@sahi81 most of us start out good. LOL

@YourMomsSecretCrush genuine goodness doesn't seek appreciation/validation.

@Elisbch yes, i did hear men going through similar issues as me.

@Redbeard maybe they only asked "sexist" " self-entitled type" men to stay away from them, good stay away from us if u r not gonna change

@sahi81 I rest my case. Your loss, not mine.

@Redbeard we women will rather remain single than with "self-entitled" men. Nothing is lost or gained for us too

@SStarfish even bad men are doing good stuff to protect their reputation or attract prey lol...

@sahi81 filter the cause and the effect .. if they make the wrong moves then they are the wrong person..

@sahi81 because they've been through hell over a bunch of different types of women and all they have to show for it is invisible scars. No lasting friendships, no one they can turn to if they're having their world fall apart. They know all a woman who asks the question "where are the good men" brings nothing but baggage with her

@Justafantasy i think u r being aggressive instead of dealing with ur issues to attract better ppl in ur life. I only want to bring good things in life for my partner if i have.

@masterofyou i am getting professional help for it now a days, i am overwhelmed, let me just vent here😭 !

@sahi81 Well I don't think he is helping 🤔 i hope you get better...

@sahi81 people take things for granted. Like if you are good, then they use you like they own you.

@DesiDudeJ04 i totally can relate to it. People take advantage of kindness and manipulate in name of love. We have to be very careful about what type of ppl we allow in our life and never compromise our boundaries for anyone, right ppl will respect our boundaries.

@sahi81 well said

@ViciDraco I'm doing both. I am trying in decent places

@sahi81 What are examples of decent places?

@ViciDraco where there is no "fun" activities involved, like entratainment , exciting places seem to attract bad men more.

Decent apps where they take strict action on reports or have more genuine people than perverts. For example : slowly

I haven't tried many places yet... I only tried online till now. Real life i am kinda scared to try yet. I don't talk to anyone in my neighborhood , there r some pervert men here who butt in a lot. I think i want to try where people work hard to achieve their goals...

@UndeadSona Don't they call that "incest", though???

@HootyTheNightOwl yeah that's why you have to settle for store bought

@VeronicaJane everywhere, from my home to the outside places everywehre i go

@Secretsmile i am not here to date

@Moneyonmymind why need to hide?

@empanadas i never friend-zoned good men, i only friend-zoned when who were bad ( at that time i didn't know they were bad but wasn't compatible with them so i friend-zoned, later i found out they were bad from start)

@KingofBones1 Careful, according to modern women, that's a sexist, self-entitled attitude.😆

@KingofBones1 Exactly. The amusing/sad part of that is the fact that they are that delusional in total denial.