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Do you really have to be a bully, b*tch, overweight mean girl with bad hygiene to get a man ? I see it works for a lot of women.

I have been single for a year and I see this dynamic a lot. Over weight women that don鈥檛 care about their appearance, or hygiene have a man. These girls act helpless as well, they collect ssi checks and food stamps, or live off dadas and their man and when their guy is around they act like lifting a finger is hard. These girls befriend pretty women or women who look and act the opposite of them who are either nice kind or beautiful or all three and flaunt in their face that they have a man you don鈥檛. I鈥檓 starting to feel like the movie Norbert was a lie because these men love being treated like that. Actually they will push you to be like that. When I try to date I realise most of these guys are looking to be humiliated and treated bad. Also these girls have bragged about cheating on they man, moving in with the guy on the first night and hooking up on the first night. You can鈥檛 convience me otherwise: if you want a man be the sloppiest sl*ut ever, use people, don鈥檛 do your hair, be insecure, use people, and treat your friends bad you will be wifed up in no time. Don鈥檛 for get to use him and act like you can鈥檛 drive, write, read, or walk. You will have a man in no time.
But what kind of man will you have? Not the kind I鈥檇 be interested in if they鈥檙e after the type of women you describe. If you want a quality person, be a quality person.
DrWatson70-79, M
Speaking on behalf of men....

No.
Lexiitexii31-35, F
@DrWatson Men speak for their selves by their actions I see everyday this woman has men your age giving her free rides and handouts. If it鈥檚 not mooching off me or her boyfriends it鈥檚 her 70 yr old neighbor
XxEllaxRawrxX13-15
This is so true, the most unkempt girls at my school with snotty attitudes will have dozens of guys begging for their attention (even teachers 馃拃) but girls like me that do almost everything they can just to be liked, get rejected by everyone. We will do our hair in the morning, try to dress nice, eat almost nothing, put on a smile etc and still get ridiculed and ignored. But all they do is roll out of bed, put on some shoes, act helpless then get everything handed to them on a silver platter. This goes for some guys too..
XxEllaxRawrxX13-15
@DS1980 Oh thank you <3
Lexiitexii31-35, F
@XxEllaxRawrxX I鈥檓 older now but yes girl it was like this even when I was younger. I got bullied for being a nice girl. Then when I got skinny for a while I was able to get men but they usually wanted someone ghetto, sloppy nasty in the end. So it really didn鈥檛 matter how I look or how well I took care of myself.
XxEllaxRawrxX13-15
@Lexiitexii I understand that fully ma'am. Two years back I got obsessed with being skinny and just blending in with everyone which was all the craze at my school but now all they want are either ghetto girls or complete plastic. However now that I pretty much look half my age with how anorexic I am and dress gothic I'm even more of an outcast.. but it is what it is <3
Mordechai31-35, M
It's called being easy. If you act like you care then people will put you above them in some way. Most people don't think they're good enough so they don't want to reinforce that belief by risking rejection.
CestManan46-50, F
I imagine what it is - those women are easier so that helps men in a few ways -

If the relationship ends, no loss. When someone loses a gem of a man or woman, it hurts but when a low quality partner leaves, it is a relief.

Men probably figure it will be easier to hop in the sack. It may not be what they WANT to lay with but for some men, something is better than nothing.

Plus, so many men have been convinced, in various ways, that they are not "Good enough" so they end up setting real low standards.
I think it鈥檚 probably you鈥檙e just a bit up yourself if you see a lot of women doing this.
Willomk146-50, M
I love a big fat helpless woman I love caring for them and looking after them
Hanginginthere31-35, M
most of the time when a man is with a sloppy woman like that, he only wants sex from her or something else, but if I were you id be yourself, if someone cant accept you for who you are you are better off single.

 
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