Do you really have to be a bully, b*tch, overweight mean girl with bad hygiene to get a man ? I see it works for a lot of women.

I have been single for a year and I see this dynamic a lot. Over weight women that don’t care about their appearance, or hygiene have a man. These girls act helpless as well, they collect ssi checks and food stamps, or live off dadas and their man and when their guy is around they act like lifting a finger is hard. These girls befriend pretty women or women who look and act the opposite of them who are either nice kind or beautiful or all three and flaunt in their face that they have a man you don’t. I’m starting to feel like the movie Norbert was a lie because these men love being treated like that. Actually they will push you to be like that. When I try to date I realise most of these guys are looking to be humiliated and treated bad. Also these girls have bragged about cheating on they man, moving in with the guy on the first night and hooking up on the first night. You can’t convience me otherwise: if you want a man be the sloppiest sl*ut ever, use people, don’t do your hair, be insecure, use people, and treat your friends bad you will be wifed up in no time. Don’t for get to use him and act like you can’t drive, write, read, or walk. You will have a man in no time.

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XxEllaxRawrxX · 13-15

This is so true, the most unkempt girls at my school with snotty attitudes will have dozens of guys begging for their attention (even teachers 💀) but girls like me that do almost everything they can just to be liked, get rejected by everyone. We will do our hair in the morning, try to dress nice, eat almost nothing, put on a smile etc and still get ridiculed and ignored. But all they do is roll out of bed, put on some shoes, act helpless then get everything handed to them on a silver platter. This goes for some guys too..

DS1980 · 41-45, M

@XxEllaxRawrxX Your way will be noticed more than theirs when everyone has grown up and moved on from school/college. Clearly by the way you write and think, you are already more grown up than your years suggest, and this is meant to be read as an acknowledgement of that rather than a knock down. Carry on as you are; you will be the one with fulfilment in the future whilst they are acting like children as grown ups.

XxEllaxRawrxX · 13-15

@DS1980 Oh thank you <3

Lexiitexii · 31-35, F

@XxEllaxRawrxX I’m older now but yes girl it was like this even when I was younger. I got bullied for being a nice girl. Then when I got skinny for a while I was able to get men but they usually wanted someone ghetto, sloppy nasty in the end. So it really didn’t matter how I look or how well I took care of myself.

XxEllaxRawrxX · 13-15

@Lexiitexii I understand that fully ma'am. Two years back I got obsessed with being skinny and just blending in with everyone which was all the craze at my school but now all they want are either ghetto girls or complete plastic. However now that I pretty much look half my age with how anorexic I am and dress gothic I'm even more of an outcast.. but it is what it is <3