My bf said he prefers big boobs, blue eyes and wavy hair. I have none of these, is it not ok to be hurt?

@Carissimi Same. And I personally don’t care if that makes me too sensitive. He should know me better than that, at that point.

I don’t care either. I am who I am. @JustGoneNow

@Carissimi Same.

@Carissimi thank you that's a lovely comment
It's a curse only because most people - for no fault of their own - aren't as kind

That’s the truth. @basicgirl12

@basicgirl12 Your sensitivity and kindness are gifts a significant other should not only appreciate, but return.

If not, you might want to re-evaluate the person you're being good to.

@DearAmbellina2113 except then we'll keep looking at other people sexually. Even sometimes in front of our partners

@basicgirl12 looking isn't touching. I'm okay with looking personally.

@Carissimi @basicgirl12

I can't answer for other men, but being who I am, I don't have anything I am drawn to more than another. Nothing like hair color, build, height or anything like that. For me, it's the person, the personality, the connection I make. That being said, as I mentioned, so many might have certain things that attract them, but go with someone opposite because there is or was a draw or connection to something else about that person that has nothing to do with physical appearance. Still, saying something like he did just wasn't necessary.

Hell, I'd suggest just saying to him, if it ever comes up again..."Oh that's good, because I like (insert physical description that is not him) as well and a larger penis." and then smile. :D

Okay, maybe that last part might be a bit petty, but made me smile thinking of it.

Thank you. You sound like a man with depth. @MrPerditus1

@Carissimi Well thank you kindly, just taught from a young age that's all. :) But it's greatly appreciated.

@bijouxbroussard you are going around the comments defending me like an absolute sweetheart
Thank you

@basicgirl12 Sorry, I’ve just been there. 😔

@bijouxbroussard I asked him, and he told me he genuinely doesn't care even if on a regular basis I fantasized about fucking other men as long as I did nothing about it

I guess he is an exception.

@bijouxbroussard I’m leaning on manipulative based on some of the other things.

@basicgirl12 No. He’s prepping for something. This sounds like a threesome thing.

@Selah Facts. ✌️

@Carissimi Same. His bitch ass better get to finding that then.

I’m a sensitive person, so I’m not sure if my reaction would be representative of most women, but it looks like there is at least three of us. @JustGoneNow

@Carissimi 🖤

@McGeeisme thx so much, you have no clue how helpful it was to read this comment

@basicgirl12 I can understand how much pain simple words can cause.

@WolfGirlwh0r3 😂😂😂

@Selah Yeah!

In a funny way!

Party explained everything!

🙂

@SoLeRiMix why did you need to pick a fight??

@Selah This is called 'shock and aww' not 'shock and awe'!

🙂

@jackson55 but... He can still have a preference?
Maybe I'm over reacting?

@basicgirl12 Sounds like he does. And no I don’t think so.

@Leafkiss Except that he told her what he usually likes. That means his “dream girl” is still out there.

@GohantheThird why?

@basicgirl12 because of what he said.

@uncalled4 yeah but I'm simply hurt because he told me. Would you have when you were still married said that to your wife?