My bf said he prefers big boobs, blue eyes and wavy hair. I have none of these, is it not ok to be hurt?

@bijouxbroussard When people tell you who they are, make sure you listen.

@DarkHeaven Exactly.

@bijouxbroussard Why don’t people have respect for themselves anymore? I don’t get it.

@DarkHeaven because even I know that I can find someone else more attractive than him
The difference is that I'll never tell him that

@basicgirl12 So find somebody less attractive that adores you. Love is more than looks.

@DarkHeaven he's not even attractive
I'm in love with him because of who he is on the inside. I'll just never tell him that

@basicgirl12 Exactly, and it’s a huge difference. You’re conscious of his feelings.

@bijouxbroussard the thing is, and I want your opinion on this please - he said that he never ever thought this would hurt me. This and the fact that he told me he's sexually attracted to other women

@basicgirl12 All communication is about something. He’s prepping you for something. Makes me wonder if he wants a threesome with you.

@basicgirl12 Or something else, but who knows. There’s a reason for it, though. I promise.

@basicgirl12 How does he imagine this would make you feel ? Would [b]he[/b] feel okay if you said something like, “I love you, but I’m sexually attracted to guys who look different from you”? I can’t imagine any man who wouldn’t feel that like a punch in the gut. He’s either really insensitive, or downright stupid—or [b]worse[/b], manipulative. There are men who say things deliberately to keep their partner off balance, or feeling insecure.

@bijouxbroussard I asked him, and he told me he genuinely doesn't care even if on a regular basis I fantasized about fucking other men as long as I did nothing about it

I guess he is an exception.

@bijouxbroussard I’m leaning on manipulative based on some of the other things.

@basicgirl12 No. He’s prepping for something. This sounds like a threesome thing.