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is it normal to stalk my crush?

I don't go insane like find his address but from time to time I'll take a pic while he isn't noticing, look through his socials and screenshot pics from them and I glance when he is near me. He doesn't even know me. Is this normal?
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
That's not terribly unusual, as long as you don't get obsessive about it. Have you considered just going up and introducing yourself?
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@ExperienceDLT @vinnie2000 You get a few felonies under your belt and you'll have the confidence to get your crush to notice you back.
vinnie2000 · F
@DunningKruger what felonies do i have?i dont like to think i have any
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@vinnie2000 No felonies? OK, then, I guess we're going to have to find some other reason for this guy to notice you and fall head over heals for you. Give me a bit to think about it.
katydidnt · 61-69, F
Taking a pic and pinning it up at home is lots like having a poster of your movie idol on your wall, or writing him to ask for a glossy. Scanning his socials is like buying People Magazine to moon over your latest love. It's what's in your mind that counts. If you're not scheming to get closer, not hoping to make contact, not planning to get him to notice you and do double-takes, then you sound normal to me. But don't turn into a paparazzo; that would be annoying at best. If you're young, let the feeling last through the wash, then rinse and repeat with a new crush. Keep it light, brief, and to yourself.
if he dropped his undies and nobody was looking, would u pick it up and smell
vinnie2000 · F
@faithfulhusband not sure how to respond to this one lol X D
Mudkip · 31-35, M
It's a bit weird. I had someone show random pics of me from a crush(I didn't even know her), and being on the other side, it feels uncomfortable
vinnie2000 · F
@Mudkip sorry to hear that happend : <
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
I think that is just healthy nice. I would not mind that.
vinnie2000 · F
@Jonjdw thank you : 3
Selah ·
Snap back to reality before you end up in jail.
vinnie2000 · F
@Selah i dont think this is that illegal lol
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
Have you built a shrine to him in your closet?
vinnie2000 · F
@MyNameIsHurl surprisingly no i dont X D
the pic thing is a little weird ngl
vinnie2000 · F
@PepsiColaP in what way? Wouldnt you like to look at your crush (assuming you had one) lolzie
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Just buy one already. Orange or grape?
Bumbles · 51-55, M
No, it’s not normal. Stop.
vinnie2000 · F
@Bumbles how is it not normal?
Bumbles · 51-55, M
@vinnie2000 I”d say the stalking part!
SW-User
if you fixate on someone you don't know your mind fills in a narrative that's not anything like reality

and what chance would you stand if he knew you were snapping secret pics? that's not so cool
That is weird to have pictures of some random person.
@vinnie2000 and you wouldn’t find it weird if someone did this to you?
vinnie2000 · F
@666Maggotz no not really, id be really happy : )
@vinnie2000 personally if someone I recently befriended shown me pictures I didn’t consent to that they took before they even spoke to me, I would be considering if they’re a serial killer. Ever seen Misery? It’s giving me those vibes.
Uh. I think it falls a bit out of the 'normal' scales. Not super terrible, but consider how you would react if the roles were reversed.
vinnie2000 · F
@stound i would be fine with it, especially if it happend to me : 3
@vinnie2000 in all cases you would be fine with it? If anyone was doing it or just your crush beacon?
Very. How old are you? All the people saying you're weird have looked at a crush's social media. Taking pics is different but it doesn't seem odd to me.
exexec · 61-69, C
I stalked a girl in high school, only to learn that she was stalking me. We weren't very good at it.
MissValerieVouge · 16-17, F
I mean, ig almost everyone has stalked their crush in some way or another, but whatever you believe is right
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Everyone looks at a crush's social media but taking pics is a bit far.
Lostpoet · M
No, and it's scary to the other person
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
Nowadays, it’s pretty normal.
not only normal, its expected.
You are what we like to call a stalker 😁
It’s not out of the ordinary.
No.

You are def going to get in trouble.
CactusJackManson · 46-50, M
Completely normal 🙄
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Seems relatively harmless.
Just don't kill him and wear his skin or something.
vinnie2000 · F
@basilfawlty89 definitely wont be doing that lol XD
Adrift · 61-69, F
Its weird.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Taking photos of them without them noticing crosses a line
DDonde · 31-35, M
@vinnie2000 Because he didn't consent to it.
vinnie2000 · F
@DDonde is he supposed to consent for it? I see lots of people taking pictures without them noticing
DDonde · 31-35, M
@vinnie2000 They shouldn't be doing that either.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Sounds more normal for teenagers that it does a mature adult.
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
As long it’s not hurting none it’s ok
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vinnie2000 · F
@BigImo thank you : 3
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vinnie2000 · F
@jshm2 how so?

 
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