DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Don't be weird. Ask him to go out for a coffee or something. Be charming and fun. Admit you like him, but not in a way that might make him uncomfortable. Find out if he likes you.
em1ly · 18-21, F
@DunningKruger yes I'll try smth out
Lucyy · 22-25, F
It sounds like you don't need to confess anything at all to him honestly. Why would you confess a crush if you like the attention you're getting from all the guys? Either you need to be willing to give that up, or you need to let it go. Because unless you're looking for just a friend with benefits or a one night stand, what's the point in telling him if you aren't looking for an exclusive boyfriend out of him?
Especially if you're underage and he's not - that's also something to consider. If you are a minor, please don't express crushes to adults.
Especially if you're underage and he's not - that's also something to consider. If you are a minor, please don't express crushes to adults.
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Lucyy · 22-25, F
@em1ly So you would need to be willing to give up all the attention from guys then, and make it clear that youre exclusive if that's what you're looking for. You can't go looking for a real relationship, and keep up all the attention from other guys without kind of cheating on him. But, again, that's only if he's underage like you.
ABCDEF7 · M
Don't express your your feelings before you understand him and his feelings towards you. Learn to value your emotions, then only you can expect from other to value it.
If you can't find ways to start taking to him with other ways/excuses, then you can ask for a walk or coffee saying you want to talk to you know you more.
Express your feeling to only those whom you know they understand and respect it.
If you can't find ways to start taking to him with other ways/excuses, then you can ask for a walk or coffee saying you want to talk to you know you more.
Express your feeling to only those whom you know they understand and respect it.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
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Lucyy · 22-25, F
@LordShadowfire and if she's from india, a quick Google search of Indian education system levels definitely confirms that this is very plausible 😂
Lucyy · 22-25, F
@em1ly I think the people who assume most colleges are 18 and up, would just kind of assume that someone you had a crush on at University would be that age. It was really common when I was in running start (the college in high school program I was in) for girls to get crushes on boys who were like 18 or 19. Sometimes older lol. But there were definitely enough underaged boys there that you would have a 16 year old meet a 17 year old at the college and start dating too tbh. But especially for the generations older than ours (from the USA at least), they likely largely view college as strictly a 18-24 year olds game, so I guess I can see the potential for confusion lol. But you're from somewhere where the educational system is completely different, so it's not even the same concept really. By your age in India, "college" seems to kind of be the standard, not the exception.
Greyjedi · M
Yes! Say “ I think you’re cute, want to go out with me?” Tell him how you feel. Confessions of attractions and love ❤️ make the world a better more honest place.
justanothername · 51-55, M
How old are you?
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@LordShadowfire I graduated early and attended college before I was an adult according to American standards
@LordShadowfire not saying she is, but I used to be in that category