Should I confess?

So, I like a guy in my college. He's super cute and his smile melts my heart. A lot of guys from college are hitting on me so I don't know if this is the right time to confess or not. I don't wanna make them feel sad (and tbh I kinda love the attention I'm getting from all the guys😳😂).PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO TELL MY CRUSH. I want the confession to be very straight to the point and no bs type but still kinda cute.

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Lucyy · 22-25, F

It sounds like you don't need to confess anything at all to him honestly. Why would you confess a crush if you like the attention you're getting from all the guys? Either you need to be willing to give that up, or you need to let it go. Because unless you're looking for just a friend with benefits or a one night stand, what's the point in telling him if you aren't looking for an exclusive boyfriend out of him?
Especially if you're underage and he's not - that's also something to consider. If you are a minor, please don't express crushes to adults.

em1ly · 18-21, F

@Lucyy I think you're right. I'm just feeling very validated by all the guys. I think I should confess cus I'm not really looking for a one night stand or smth

Lucyy · 22-25, F

@em1ly So you would need to be willing to give up all the attention from guys then, and make it clear that youre exclusive if that's what you're looking for. You can't go looking for a real relationship, and keep up all the attention from other guys without kind of cheating on him. But, again, that's only if he's underage like you.

em1ly · 18-21, F

@Lucyy Yes he is my age and I'm willing to give up the attention. I'll try confessing my feelings. Thanks!

Lucyy · 22-25, F

@em1ly I would start with just asking him out to something casual then. Bring up a cafe, bakery, etc, you like so you can get some one-on-one time before trying to make it anything official.