Is it in you to forgive & forget a huge betrayal? Maybe forgive & never forget? Just forget and pretend they don't exist? Can you let it go?
Whats's the norm for you?
61-69, F
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Horace Fair enough.
Musicman · 61-69, M
Yes it is and yes I have.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Musicman Which one?
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
I can forgive.. but I don’t forget.
We just acquaintances now.. ✌
We just acquaintances now.. ✌
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Ontheroad Agreed. Forgetting lets them do it again.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
I don't forget. I focus my energy and my brains and heart on other important things
ninalanyon · 70-79, TVIP
Forgive, perhaps maybe even probably. Forget, no. I only forget useful things like the PIN for my SIM card.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@ninalanyon Lol. Yep
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Busybee333 Yes, that particular depth of connection is gone.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@EldritchFox Can't blame you!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@PinkMoon Fair enough.
Magicianzini · M
It was in me once to forgive a "huge betrayal", but that only led to even more garbage that came to me from hell delivered to me from that individual. Now I'm back to the zero-forgiveness policy that has always served me much better.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Magicianzini Sorry that happened. But yes. You let them get away with something once. They'll continue to do it again and again. I might forgive for my own piece of mind these days, but I never forget.
Magicianzini · M
@LadyBronte Indeed, I knew that before I tried the whole forgive and forget routine - but I made an exception because of cardiac muscle tissue. Sometimes we know something but life still has to teach it to us for more of a 3D effect haha.
That's ok. Life gave me proof.
I forgive people now before they do anything. I guess I expect it now - expect it and accept it, peacefully. It works out better for everyone this way.
That's ok. Life gave me proof.
I forgive people now before they do anything. I guess I expect it now - expect it and accept it, peacefully. It works out better for everyone this way.