Do some men enjoy drama in their relationship? One of my cousins, he dated someone who took...

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

My husband sure does. He creates most if it

Gibbon · 70-79, M

No just simply no. OMG the stories of my 2nd ex who saved all the drama for home and gave it to me. And everyone else in her outside world thought she was so nice.

Northwest · M

I'm sure some do, and this is why Kardashians has an audience.

EagerDaddy · 41-45, M

Some do…they’re almost human

1490wayb · 61-69, M

definitely...it is personality trait not a gender issue

romell · 51-55, M

Most don't but for the sake of their relationship endure it

GoFish · 41-45, F

i think they enjoy the heated relationship despite the drama eh? not the drama itself?

ThatGuyOverThere · 36-40, M

there's necessary drama, to maintain and soliditify the the relationship. but then there's uneccesary drama, where little shit gets made up; picked apart and talked about. I personally don't mind bs drama: little couple shit: laundry, groceries, tech issues issues with phone and texts didn't go through; hell, even of we forgot to get some thing at the store. cool.

but things that cause legit fights? yeah, nah.

BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

Some .. not most

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I've known a couple, but not very many.
I absolutely hate drama it just causes problems.

Kiesel · 56-60, M

Good gawd, no

robingoodfellow · M

I can tell you I definitely do not.
Drama is the fastest way to never see me again.

SilentObZerver · M

Most men dont enjoy any drama....
Especially calm, peaceful men....

I know most women like it.....

I sometimes ask myself do some women find peace boring?

GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

Men who have easy, boring lives, maybe.

ThatGuyOverThere · 36-40, M

I'll never date a Kardashian. if we're not shopping at Walmart together amd arguing over clearance, then nope. our bank accounts need to match. lol. #couple shit

exexec · 70-79, C

Not me

ReptilianFromPlanetCrush · M

thats a hard pass.

wildbill83 · 41-45, M

hell no. been there done that. I prefer a laid back partner

Boeing · 36-40

Don't know about men but I do love a bit of drama, but I need that level of awareness where we can fall in and out of it without dragging it for too long, that it becomes a real drama !

Mindful · 56-60, F

They might enjoy it if they're married to someone they're in love with. My husband loves zero dram. So do I. But it has a way of seeping into life if you interact with people. I keep ALOT of all that I hear to myself, but I might post it here if it's weighing heavily in my mind. But spreading drama only causes more drama. Anyhow, we keep it to a bare minimum. We Love peace and quiet.

Horace · M

No, and here's why. Women don't want us to help them or allow us to eliminate their drama. All they want is for us to listen .... yak yak yak blah blah blah yak yak yak blah blah blah yak yak yak...while we hug them.
I prefer to comfort hug once, help, and a final "MY HERO" 🤗.

antonioioio · 70-79, M

some do
some don't 🤗

GohantheThird · M

I think it just depends on the attraction level. Sometimes it's a way of flirting, but I tend to be very selective about my drama.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Probably so. For the most part, I just tolerate it, because I'm a chump.

DancingStarGoddess ·

A lot of them yes. They're bored without it. Some like things nice and peaceful but there are some who are absolutely bored if there's nothing popping off and i don't get it.

TexChik · F

Until they experience it first hand.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

What kind of drama?

EldritchFox

I believe my exbf did. We would go through these cycles and I would think things were chilling out then suddenly he'd do or say something sooooo mean. If I reacted it was all about my reaction, not what he did. It was like a sport for him.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

I think sometimes people conflate stimulation with negative attention. Sometimes it replicates relationships they're used to so they seek it out again because it's their version of love. It's incredibly toxic and stressful because it's rooted in disingenuous conversations where there has to be a winner. I can't engage in that long-term. I'm not putting my nervous system through that.

TheWanderingMind · 41-45, M

Not at all. I'll agree (even though I don't) with someone just for the drama to stop and walk away. If you tell me 2+2=5 you're right

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

It can be fun occasionally

mksworld · 51-55, C

As girls we can tell that the girl fraternity eats, breathes and exumes drama almost constantly because that's what feminine energy (if there is such a thing) is driven by.

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Magenta · F

Apparently. The one here I called a drama king quietly to myself. 🤭

WillaKissing · 61-69, M

Not me, I hate drama of any kind of form. The fastest way to disgust me honestly.

daaaan2000 · 41-45, M

N O

Lilnonames · F

well when you get a sex change theres bound to be drama

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Some people do, for various reasons. I think that many subconsciously crave conflict. Why? Who knows. It could be validation, an ego stroke, or filling some kind of void.

BluntSm0ker · 100+, M

Only men that have too much sugar in the tank like drama.

empanadas · 31-35, M

I hate drama, i need peace in my life. Arguments will always happen but there's a difference between talking things out and creating unnecessary drama