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Dude, guys are easy! Be nice, have conversation... it really is that simple. 🤷‍♂
Boeing · 36-40
@UnderLockDown It is I who isn't simple apparently ?

SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Just be yourself! The men you attract and develop a relationship with will match your vibes. You don’t need tips, just confidence in who you are.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I don’t know any tips other than shaking your tits to keep their attention 🤷🏻‍♀
Boeing · 36-40
@PerfectionOfTheHeart 😬 I do that all the time, I was hoping for something else
Oh wait ....you meant those tips ...
@chernobylplaygr0unds It didn't even occur to me that it was a joke.😆
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Make them your man servants
fun4us2b · M
@ScreamingFox *feeds you grapes 🍇 while fanning 🪭you*
GoFish ·
be more selective and cautious on being involved with anyone 😳 i think also it helps to be up front with any goals or intentions to anyone either if anything
Boeing · 36-40
@GoFish
GoFish ·
@Boeing ☺🤗❤
ABCDEF7 · M
You don't know what's running in their mind, simply as they don't know what is in yours, how you feel, what you want. The emotions we feel is a world made by us, it's neither the real world, nor theirs.

You can have satisfaction by two things giving and receiving. Giving is in your control, receiving is not. But giving requires you to believe that you are the only truth, don't have any expectation. If something comes to you enjoy it, but don't expect. Learn to be happy & satisfied in giving. For that you might have to detach your SELF with your created world(expectations emotions, dreams, etc.)

"Expectations are the root cause of all sorrows" - Buddha

🙏
fun4us2b · M
It's hard to know what someone else is thinking or what they want when they don't know themselves...I think accepting that is helpful when trying to understand others. Both men and women.

And golden rule, treat others as you wish 2b, or platinum rule or better than you wish to be.

I think everyone like to have their confidence raised, so legitimate praise is a big one...
Boeing · 36-40
@fun4us2b I like your golden and platinum rules...
I used to praise men so much but once I realized they wouldn't reciprocate, I am feeling less motivated. I might need to get over it and get back at it, but I am not really sure...
fun4us2b · M
@Boeing taking small steps is always a way...but it takes practice to stop "jumping to conclusions" after a bad experience...
What's wrong in the first place, if I may ask to get the full picture?
I think what works with me is being neutral and a little distant. Don't expose too much about yourself. Don't treat them much differently than women though, at least at the point of being noticeable. And keep your opinions about gender differences and relationships between men and women to yourself, until you get to know theirs first. And do not think of them as your responsibility. I think a lot of problems and inequalities arise from women being too available and too protective.
There's lots of talk about decentering men lately, but that requires decentering sex too, if you're straight.
peterlee · M
Just be yourself and get to know them as friends.
Boeing · 36-40
@peterlee I try, but our hidden layers are reserved in friendships.

I am trying to do this.
emiliya · 26-30, F
With men? Plural?

Transient lifestyle makes for transient relationships.
Boeing · 36-40
@swirlie thank you Swirlie 🌹
emiliya · 26-30, F
@swirlie What do you mean? Aren't you single? That makes only one of us. I had casual encounters also but they aren't worth mentioning. I only fall in love with the special guys.
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Boeing What do you want? A boyfriend or boyfriends? Do you want husband?

If you want casual you get casual.
Boeing · 36-40
@Boeing Lol….. nah you’re great. Just challenging to find someone to match the special stuff that you have. 🙂
Boeing · 36-40
Punxi · F
lissah · 36-40, F
Just be open to trying new things and have fun.
I'm afraid I don't have any tips, but good luck!
It’s all about cookies! 😛
Boeing · 36-40
@DelightfulyDelectablyDelicious where do I enable them?????????????
@Boeing Right here 😏
faery · F
O gee, good luck, lol
Boeing · 36-40
@faery I didn't know to laugh or to sad-hug...!!
faery · F
@Boeing Actually, either would do 😌
Do you mean physically or emotionally?
BohoBabe · M
Show dem titties!
With men? I don't know if that can be done without giving in to their perversion. 😅
Boeing · 36-40
@SinlessOnslaught I know nothing no more !
@Boeing If you want to improve your relationship with men, just send them nudes. 😆

With the exception of @CountScrofula and maybe one or two others.
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Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
Men want sex eventually they will wait if they really want you forever but you have to be willing to give yourself to them eventually
Suck lots of cock and don’t Cosby the b hole, YW😉
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Nunlover
Please stop using big words when you post because it makes me feel inferior, weak and fragile.
@swirlie my bad, I’ll try 😞 you never did send them nudes 🤬
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Nunlover
If I did, it wouldn't be fair to all the others.
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
tips?

swirlie · 31-35, F
Yes. Don't do anything unless it comes naturally for you. You as a female, are already the one who's in charge of the relationship, not him, so understand that going in. It's not up to you to accommodate the unique disposition of a man, it's up to him to accommodate your's. If he doesn't like who you are at face value, tell him to move on.

 
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