I want to actually improve my relationship with men.

@emiliya
Are you speaking from personal experience when making that assertion?

@swirlie I only had three boyfriends and an online idiot.

I think people are like objects, or numbers. What is Boeing hoping to achieve in collecting more objects and numbers? She isn't looking for boyfriend so will get boyfriends, and boyfriends don't care. Why should they?

@emiliya
You have no idea what Boeing is hoping to achieve. It is very presumptuous of you to assume that she's about to go down the same failed path in life that you chose.

The title of her post reads:
I don't see how anything you've stated so far bears any relationship to what her post deems itself to be about.

@swirlie What's the matter? Are you lesbian lovers?

@emiliya Emilya, I know it is generalising, but there are also general truths that apply. So, either approaching one or many, despite we all are different, we still all share similarities.
I have had many men in my life, and I am going through years of celibacy, a brief background.

I went through my feminist era, I believe much necessary for a woman.

I am met and see these manosphere materials. The war between us.

I genuinely want to, even if I must go slowly, to bridge the gap I am experiencing, sometimes as misunderstanding, sometimes as hatred, sometimes as inherited culture, sometimes as inability in our vital energies, to give and to receive.

@Boeing I can't even remember the last time I had conversation with two women. I guess it was with female relatives.

I don't do girly chat. All I can say is, if you want husband, you better find husband. And if you don't want husband, don't find husband. But deal with not having husband.

@emiliya I was very much like you E, I think it is a normal unfolding for some women, later in Life I got to meet with my feminine and I came to love women.

But along the way, I have lost my connection to men, and for good reason as I was coming from the wrong place.

Now I am genuine once again.
I'm ready to embrace all, no matter how long or what it's going to take me.

And btw I don't know where you see the girly chat. It's 3 grown women conversing :) welcome to the family

@swirlie thank you Swirlie 🌹

@swirlie What do you mean? Aren't you single? That makes only one of us. I had casual encounters also but they aren't worth mentioning. I only fall in love with the special guys.

@Boeing What do you want? A boyfriend or boyfriends? Do you want husband?

If you want casual you get casual.