I don't like women who have more expectations from other women than their own husbands regarding their childrenThey're so quick to blame their own mothers, mothers in law, sisters, friends etc when something goes wrong. They expect other women to be available, do favours, provide childcare, know how to take care of their children, meanwhile the fathers may... See More »
At work they think I don't know what's going on because I get along with everyone, respect people's time, age and experience, always helpand never complain. However I'm not as innocent or stupid as they think. I can see how kindness is being exploited but I turn a blind eye mostly for other people's sake. However after leaving me alone and not helping me when I needed I'm considering... See More »
I love that whenever he cooks he gives me bites and makes me taste different ingredientsA piece of cheese, a spoonful of the sauce... he makes a chore seem so playful.
Where are all the traditional older people?It's never "I want to retire so I can strengthen my mental, social and physical abilities by reading, enjoying new hobbies, going on hikes, taking care of my loved ones, eating better, fixing my circadian rhythm" etc. It's always "I'm retired so I... See More »
Employers forget that they're easily replaceable tooIt's easier for you to find another job than for them to find another employee who will do the work of 2 or 3 people like they want to
How can we stop grieving a very unfortunate diagnosis?The person is not dead yet of course and we don't know how bad it is or what treatment will follow. However her life has changed and needs assistance. Losing one's own independence within just a month takes a lot of courage. And the caregivers must... See More »
Interesting thing about cutting ties with someone and then you see their change in how they express themselvesI cut him off because I knew his way of thinking even though he wasn't too open with me. Playing all moderate and kind but really he was only mirroring me. I know how to read beyond the surface, though. After I cut ties with him he finally felt safe... See More »
They don't see what's wrong with their actions because they surround themselves with people who normalize them
Do you have the same financial opportunities and stability as your partner?Does it bother you if you have more/less than them?
Should I be done with my master's, learn a new language and immigrateor should I settle down and try to become successful without all that fuss?
I think success isn't measured in money or fameSuccess is when, even if just one person, comes up to you and says "I need this from you and just from you, because you do it better than anybody else".
I brainwash him every night by caressing his back for him to fall asleep toWhat are your ways to make your partner stay with you forever?
I told him if we have children, we're going to add the months of pregnancy & breastfeeding and when I'm done he's going to be their primary caregiverfor the next months combined. After that we'll be even and do everything on the same level. So if I'm pregnant for 9 months and nurse for 6 months, he's going to do most of the work for the next 15 months.
It's a bit unfairWhen we hear about people dying, people we didn't personally know, we think such a shame a person with dreams, with a future, or just a person died, without knowing them or anyome related to them we feel an unconditional sadness. But when someone we... See More »
I don't know how to approach this issue with my sisterMy sister and I live in different cities. Since summer she's been dating this man and I got to meet him last month. Pretty quickly he admitted that when he was freshly adult (10 years ago), he had decided to go to the military. Whilst he was serving,... See More »
I can't imagine working a not stressful jobHow do I feel comfort in high stress environments, I don't know. Maybe it's just that I feel like I'm actually contributing something. Not that people with more creative and less stressful jobs aren't contributing, but since handling the pressure is... See More »
