Fillingthevoid · 46-50, MNew
Waiting till she turns 18 might look like grooming be safe and cut her off completely till then!! It not illegal but it is icky
Cyclist · 46-50, M
@Fillingthevoid not illegal depending on where.
Pinkstarburst · F
I asked her out and she responded somewhat neutrally.
She is not interested. It doesn’t matter how old either of you are. Drop it and leave her alone.
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Pinkstarburst · F
@emiliya Who said anything about having sex??? Wasn’t he just asking her out in a date????? Or is it just assumed that’s what’s expected if her??? Methinks you may be the author of this post.
emiliya · 22-25, F
@Pinkstarburst What else do couples do? Relationships are sexual. The male and female have sex. Are they supposed to be something different?
Why are you concerned if it is only a date?
Why are you concerned if it is only a date?
Pinkstarburst · F
emiliya · 22-25, F
You have made several posts about the girl. This is not something you would do if you did not want “to date her now.”
The liberals want children to vote. My boyfriend is twenty years older than I. Why is a man in his twenties dating a 17 year old girl a problem?
The liberals want children to vote. My boyfriend is twenty years older than I. Why is a man in his twenties dating a 17 year old girl a problem?
black4white · 56-60, M
What is the age of consent in your country and follow that rule if THAT is your biggest concern
Good luck and also just talk and be friends with he if it blooms then great if not you may still have a friend :)
Good luck and also just talk and be friends with he if it blooms then great if not you may still have a friend :)
theweekdy · 22-25, M
Man icb leave the girl alone 🤦♂
You backed off at 16 because you knew it wasn’t right. Nothings changed: she’s still a minor and you’re still an adult.
You backed off at 16 because you knew it wasn’t right. Nothings changed: she’s still a minor and you’re still an adult.
Gingerbreadspice · F
Do nothing yet. If it’s meant to happen it will one day even if it’s years down the line. I’ve seen people who I’ve not seen for 8 years or so. People are like busses, three come at once.
HumanEarth · F
Let her go, too young or wait till over the age limit in your area.
I live in a rural area to. Here everyone would get together and beat the "F" out you for even making a move on a minor. Just saying
I live in a rural area to. Here everyone would get together and beat the "F" out you for even making a move on a minor. Just saying
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It sounds like you're hyper-focused on her age and that you're not interested in her in any way except for the perceived value of being with someone younger than you. I wouldn't date someone I was not at least interested in.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@WowwGirl great
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@MartinTheFirst agree to disagree 👍
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@WowwGirl fan-tastic
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
It seems like you are in love with her age... and the age difference. That's not much on which to build a "real" relationship. Best to keep this in your treasure chest of fantasies.
At best, it is only a year..... so play safe
Wait until she is 18, and if you see her at a party in the meantime. Covertly let her know that you intend to ask her out after she reaches the age of 18.
Wait until she is 18, and if you see her at a party in the meantime. Covertly let her know that you intend to ask her out after she reaches the age of 18.
istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M
The age gap will still be there no matter what age you are. The real question is the legality of the situation which depends largely upon local and national laws where you live.
YoMomma ·
Ask her.. is 18 the legal age for consent in your area? If you feel like it’s inappropriate to pursue her then don't
Lilymoon · F
She is still a child
MrCeez · 51-55, M
I would move on she’s to young and the gap will always be there
sylvsn59 · 61-69, M
Why don't you just be friends with her until she is 18. There shouldnt be a legal issue if you are not having sex but check your village laws.
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Masterjohn · M
@Stew1eX yes and now we have 7 boys
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@Masterjohn Congratulations on your family.
Masterjohn · M
@PinkMoon 23 years
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
If a 26 year old slept with my Teen daughter.... Well, Fun Fact---Castration is only aggravated assault if they live through it.
She’s not an adult. She’s barely experienced life yet. Find someone your own age.
If it feels wrong, don't do it. Trust your instincts, not your hormones.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
What country are you from?
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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Ask her dad the same question
SomeMichGuy · M
...dude, it's only 9 yrs.
Stop worrying this like a dog with a bone.
Proceed.
Stop worrying this like a dog with a bone.
Proceed.
SomeMichGuy · M
@Stew1eX Is the age of consent 16 or 17?
JonUK41 · 36-40, M
@SomeMichGuy Its 16 - there's no legal problems in this scenario.
Some people might disapprove but that's a whole other issue
Some people might disapprove but that's a whole other issue
SomeMichGuy · M
Lilyb · 22-25, F
"Hello Diddy? One got out"!
RogueLodyte · M
If you are asking the 'experts' here for relationship advice, you have bigger problems than an age gap.
Magenta · F
@RogueLodyte 😄 Right?!
Last place on earth I'd ask.
Last place on earth I'd ask.
RogueLodyte · M
@Magenta Yeah, they have all the answers yet they are single and bitter. 😉
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Too risky - stay sway
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
That's a child no?
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emiliya · 22-25, F
Jlester · 56-60, M
17 will get you ten years...lol jailbait
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Find someone your age. That’s all I’m gonna say.
Falakata village?
Sweetlittle20 · 22-25, F

MethDozer · M
Stay away from the kids