If a friend cancels a lunch and drinks plan because they suddenly have a Tinder date, how will you feel

I hate when people do that.
I try my best not to cancel on people.
If I do cancel, I will certainly ask them when they are available next and do it then.

I also can't stand when people cancel plans, and offer no suggestions or make no attempts to reschedule.
It's shows lack of interest and complete disregard for other people.

I've been chatting with a new acquaintance for a few weeks. I had invited her to hang out once. She couldn't make it. Didn't try to make any suggestions.
We kept exchanging messages, then I hadn't heard from her for a full 7 days.

She claims being busy at work.
Last time I checked, people clicked out for work and/or got breaks every single day.

In my opinion, you don't make an acquaintance into a friend by ignoring their message for a week.
I'm not gonna talk to her anymore

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Sounds like a booty call takes precedence over a friendship. It should be the other way around.

Good luck with your Tinder sex hookup date. People who get those are more elite than the rest of us, Unless it's during Festivus (because that's for the rest of us).

Sometimes people lose their courtesy when they start thinking with their gonads!

HAS she not learned, "Chicks before d*cks"?

But yeah it is aggravating to be looking forward to something fun then someone decides something "more important" came up. It is disrespectful of your time.

Poetic justice (and instant karma) would be if that guy (or maybe woman?) stood up your friend.

Sounds like they're not invested in the friendship indeed...

Agree with you. However, it would only happen that one time and they would know how I feel about it. Depending on their answer , I may make one permanent decision regarding them.

In your place, I will go to a place where there are many people, like a social club.

Perhaps, you will meet another person worthy of your love and trust right there.

sure I’d be disappointed but I suppose I can understand why she would be so excited to go out with some tinder date I guess.

I think if she did it a couple of times I would say something to her about it, but am the type of person who just likes everyone to be happy and I don’t take too much personally so if she wants to reschedule then by all means, let’s do it

Disappointed and questioning what that "friend" really thought of me, it wouldn't be much.

Then after the date they’d wish they gone out with the friend instead.

If someone did that to me I wouldn't never ask them again for anywhere out.

If he has tinder dates all the time with women who come a dime a dozen, I'd be upset too. If he never dates and this is a miracle someone agreed to go out with him, you should be thankful and have him send you a selfie before he goes out to make sure he is dressing right, and ask him where he is taking her to make sure it's a good place.

dump them since they obviously dont value the friendship

I would feel annoyed

I’d be annoyed.

They'd better get some lol 😂 I mean id recognize true character and be glad plus know not to waste any more of my time.

When I set plans with a friend, I keep them, and the Tinder Date can wait. That's all I can say about that.

I would act like i dont know them cause wtf

Yep. He's taking you for granted.

Good riddance

So have you talked to your friend since this happened?
Did he get stood up?

Hahaha that's an interesting one.. but I know what it takes to get them a match so yeah be it.. come back later and pay for it

Women's and go to any bar and pick up a guy to go have sex with it is not that easy for men.

I think I'd be happy for my friend. My schedule is flexible.

Like I'm picking morsels.

What kind of friend is this?
What sort of situation are they in?

If he is just a friend you should understand

Oh well

Cast aside.

I’d feel some kinda way that’s rude